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| Topic: Persistent vs Obsessive, whats the difference? | |
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If you,re interested in a woman/man, and they give you mixed signals whats the cut off point between persistence and obsession?
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oh. I hope this is in the right forum?
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Persistence= making your self look like a fool to no ends...
obsession= stalking.  
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really' that sound right.
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i think there is a fine line and the only one who knows you are crossing it is the person on the receiving end.
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Has anyone been sucessful at being persistent?
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Stalking=obsessive.
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I think persistent carries the implication that you're still operating with some degree of control. Obsessive means it's controlling you....
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a persistent person still has a degree of hope, hasn't been given the signal to back off.... an obsessed person has lost all hope, has been told to back off, yet continues to persue regardless.
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Persistence...When you aren't sure yet how the other person feels so you keep trying to win their heart!!!!!!
Obsession.....After the person has no and you still persist!!!!! 
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obsession- wanting that person and thinking no one else will have her/him if you can not even when he/she has made it clear that the anser is NO!
persistence- calling a few times after he/she saids no after that you are obsessed |
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i think persistance is when u have a goal in a relationship or any matter in life.
obsession is usually when u have select few other options and deep inside u only obsess cause u feel u have no where else to turn. |
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persistence: continue to push through, even though it's hard...because you know the goal is worth it.
obsession: continue to push through because you CAN'T do anything other than... |
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Persistence is acknowledged and sometimes reciprocated Obsessive may require a restraining order 
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So??Redneck which is it???
You Obsessive or Persistent??? 
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I have never knownly stalked or have been stalked
But I do get alot of phone calls with from a guy you has asthma |
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Was waiting for the restraining order but she called and we talked.
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