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Topic: if it doesn't feel right?
bl0ndebdsm Joined Mon 07/30/07 Posts: 4	Mon 07/30/07 07:24 PM
I have not been in a relationship for a long time "like 5 years" until recently and have been seeing this guy for a couple months, I think that I felt more right being single or it's just to the point where I was single for so long that I got comfortable with being single, is there something wrong with me?

Tulsaman_F4X2 Joined Mon 07/02/07 Posts: 5	Mon 07/30/07 07:29 PM
No you need to what is right for you.

Alanna77 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 1191	Mon 07/30/07 07:30 PM
no maybe it just isn't right with him once you find someone you will know when it is right you wont need to wonder ~Alanna

eaglewoods Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 985	Mon 07/30/07 07:31 PM
no u r only human

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Mon 07/30/07 07:34 PM
Maybe your just not ready to be in any type of relationship. Whatever it maybe best of luck to you. I'm stuck in the middle.. as it wouldn't matter but I'm the type whome wouldn't mind being in a relationship, but that's just me.

BayAreaGal Joined Sat 07/28/07 Posts: 6070	Mon 07/30/07 07:35 PM
If you think you've given it enough time (5, 10, 15 dates, whatever) and things aren't "feeling" right, then go with your gut. It's better to end it now then get more attached. If you stay with him then neither of you have the opportunity to meet the one you're looking for. Good luck!

momo310 Joined Sat 07/28/07 Posts: 1	Mon 07/30/07 07:44 PM
Go slow. You are new to this. Give yourself the time. If the guy is right for you he will understand. You will know when it is ok to move to the next step in the relationship or it is time to move one. Bottom line: take your time

canubetheone Joined Wed 07/04/07 Posts: 1006	Mon 07/30/07 07:54 PM
good advice mom now hmmmm lets see if i can find the new guy for that advice

mnhiker Joined Wed 02/14/07 Posts: 3771	Mon 07/30/07 07:57 PM
No, it's good to be a little cautious. There's nothing wrong with being single for awhile. I know what it feels like to not be in a relationship for a long time, so I sympathize with your dilemma.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 07/31/07 12:12 PM
I understand where you are.....Ive been single for awhile now and Im sooooooooo independant that I think sometimes its hard for a man to be a part of it. We are used to doing things "our" way and not having to answer to anyone.

incognito29 Joined Tue 02/13/07 Posts: 384	Tue 07/31/07 05:34 PM
Soo true Gypsy. I've always been over independent. It's easier to be single then to deal with all the drama and expectations that come in a relationship. gypsy...gotta tell ya luv the crack whore pic, it make me laugh every time.

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