Topic: Any tips?
Rpb3232's photo
Mon 07/30/07 12:03 PM
I am new to this online dating thing. I am a single father that has very little time to meet new people. Does this actually work? Do legitimate relationships develop from this? I tried another site, but got alot of women looking for one nite stands. Dont get me wrong, as a man I feel flattered by the invitations, but I want someone to take home to momma. Or more importantly, my daughter. On that other site, it seemed like if you were a nice guy, it scared them off. Any tips for me? Dont worry, I dont sound like a hornball perv when talking to women so that is definatly not my problem.

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Mon 07/30/07 12:06 PM
Hi welcome :) hope you find what you're looking for this site is great a lot of great people on here :) ~Alanna

Johncenawlife316's photo
Mon 07/30/07 12:14 PM
Not sure, only tips I can think up is post a lot like people first told me when I join. Also email women you think you like and go from there. This site doesn't work as easy lee as the paid one's from what I can already see.

Best of luck.

And you said something about women only wanting one night stands lol, see I knew it went both ways. laugh

RandomX's photo
Mon 07/30/07 12:17 PM
Welcome.......And Just talk to people ...Get to know them let them get to know you....Works in real Life Should work here as well:)

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Mon 07/30/07 12:25 PM
varfor droja? lol

stevil342001's photo
Mon 07/30/07 12:43 PM
my ex wife met someone online and married him 3 years later .. thank god she doesnt have my last name anymore..lol so if it work for her mybe for some lucky people..

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Mon 07/30/07 01:12 PM
about the best advie i could give, is what was given to me! post in the forums and let everyone get to know you, as you learn about them! check the 'newbies' forum and read the post by Kojak...real helpful!! alot of cool people here!! welcome, enjoy, and we'll see ya around!

Rpb3232's photo
Mon 07/30/07 09:29 PM
Thank you guys! I had no idea that there were so many people in the forums.

LAMom's photo
Tue 07/31/07 12:11 AM
Hello & Welcome,, Just be yourself and jump into the forums,, Lots of incredible people here,,, Have fun

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Wed 08/01/07 04:51 PM
Don't eat the hemlock

unsure's photo
Wed 08/01/07 06:25 PM
Hey and welcome!! I think the best way to get to know someone is sit back and watch them....just kind of wait and see how they act when they post in the forums.
If there is someone that you want to know more about, send them an email. There are plenty of nice people here, there are also plenty of not so nice people here LOL....I am sure that you will soon know the difference.
I hope that you find that right one to take home to meet your mama and your daughter! I have always said, if they don't get along with my children then they have to go!! Have fun and good luck!
Unsure flowerforyou

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Sat 08/04/07 03:59 AM
he's already been deactivated

Rpb3232's photo
Tue 08/14/07 10:08 PM
Im active again. I found a wonderful woman here but things didnt go so well. I totally respect her. We just were on different schedules and far away from each other. So I am back to see if I can find another great gal.

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Mon 09/03/07 07:48 PM
Hang in there, it works, might not be the first one, but is sure beats hanging out in bars...many of us are not into the bar scene so this is a safer way to get to know people and if nothing else you can make some new friends...everybody needs those too!