Sorry I am not settling for a "jerK' regardless of how many people who might "get away".

As far as strikeing out with older women or even age approriate women I have an idea it is more about not making an effort to be a compatiable person and whineing when you can't live up to the expectations of the women you pick.

That most women consider themseves individuals and do not like to be lump together with stereotypes may have something to do with you r failures in romance but I am sure the whineing doesn't help either.