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Topic: Addictive personality:
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Thu 05/10/12 08:02 PM


No addiction is healthy. Some addictions may be less harmful than others, but that doesn't make them healthy. An addiction is any uncontrolled impulse that takes over your life.

For example, yes we all need food to survive, but those who are addicted to food have an uncontrolled impulse to over eat that controls their life.

Those addicted to the internet have an uncontrolled impulse to spend hours online. This impulse controls their life.

The thing is we can gain control of these impulses and gain control of our lives, instead of having our lives or addiction control and take over us.

Actually, I don't agree with your definition of addiction. There are many addictive personalities that handle their addictions without being controlled by them. I can not agree with that definition of addiction when there is free will to choose trying something or not trying something. You choose to do something or choose to not do something. You choose to control it or not control it. The only reason a person doesn't fight for it is self-esteem. The person that is going to give you self-esteem or lack thereof is the individual themself. You choose your path and life.


Yes, people do choose to control their addiction life. That's what I was saying. I don't necessarily agree with the self esteem part though, for some perhaps, but each person is different.

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