why is it so damn hard to meet someone in real life?????? i am so damn frustrated. over the past damn 7 yrs i have met a total of 3 men. 1 online and 2 on phone chat lines. the online guy lasted about 4 yrs. 1 of the phone guys lasted a few weeks, the other is going on about 2 yrs. i often have guys leave me flattering messages online, but i cant find a guy in real life to even come up to me and say hello. what the hell is that all about.

im so freakin pissed it aint even funny. what the hell???? im a good person and i have alot of love to give. why in the world is it almost impossible to find a REAL freakin person to give it to????

oh yea, i have heard it all..........love will come when u least expect it. God has a plan for you, you will meet the right one when He wants you to. The right one is out there for you. Stop looking and he will find you. Ive heard all that BS and more.

well Im getting pretty damn tired of waiting. this BS blows.

thanks,

P

I don't do online dating anymore, just here for friends.

I've met people from here in real life. Things just didn't work out for one reason or another. I'm just looking for asexual friendship now. Hopefully I can find that, but not holding my breathe or anything.

Sitting around and waiting isn't going to do anything for you. I suggest going out and searching. You can't complain about not "finding" a good person at the same time that you are complaining about men not coming up to you.
It's the 21st century, and we, as women, are going to have to step up our game to compete with lazy, sedentary men in this age of awesome video games.
There are millions of fish in the sea, and that gorgeous face of yours is awesome bait, but you'll need an air of feminine power to really hook a man, and confidence to reel him in.

If one is more interested in video games than women, they're not worth the time and effort to go after, let a lone much else. Why would one want to chase the lazy ones anyway? I'd go after the ones worth going after.

Rather than worrying about dating, just get out and start making new friends. Try things like volunteering and other activities that you enjoy. You'll meet people your age that have things in common with you.

Also, don't wait around for someone to say hi. Start talking to people.

Hello Lady! There are a few of us left, All repect.

Are u on a dating site in your own area? What happened to the guy you were asking about last week btw?

Well, at least your still upbeat and positive.

mg1959 Put away the whip boitch. You must have doubting days. I think you are wicked

surprise them and go up to them...

what she said ^^

You don't have to wait for them to come to you. Get out there and make some friends. Be the first to approach.

If ya just venting, then that's fine :)

If you are looking to find a local single guy, then I'd advise you to read as much proffesional dating advise as you can, and then go from there.

This is easy...

If you wan't a REAL local lover....

1. turn off your computer. (that kills it for most people)

2. go outside your house. (unless you got a lot of hot single delivery guys)

3. make yourself available to local guys. (they won't know that you are available if you don't put your stuff out there)

Next question.......

LMAO. You can attract more men by not complaining than with vinegar........ Or you can attract more men with honey.. no no that's not it either..oh well.....