Well, what i would like to know is the best way to approach a woman that you find attractive. Anyone can help me out?

The same way that you would appriciate a woman to approach you. (within reason of course).

Stop over thinking it, just do it. Use common sense.

I would hope you would approach her like any other human being. If you can't be yourself ..why bother.
Everything starts with friendship. So make a friend and go from there.

Agree!

Ya just say "nice shoes, wanna ****?". (okay, I'm kidding! )

This.

Just make sure your zipper is up, because it most definitely does not help if it is down.

Probably want to act like a gentleman and find a moment that you can politely introduce yourself. Probably help a lot if you have taken some time to observe something about her that you can say you like rather than just her appearance or solely being female. Or ask a question about something she might know about that isn't too personal. Example;

Hello I am Richie and I noticed you seem to like this cafe. Can you recommend something good?

Hello I am Richie and I have seen you in the area do you know if there is a good music store?

Chatting about something "safe" let's a female rlate to you without you being too intimate and scareing her away.

I think the women like the men who are funny and take care of them! first of all u should say something nice to her like she´s dressed well or something like that, or shes very cute today!

Be yourself.

... and you'll be placed in the "friend zone" every time.

Whatever you do, it has to come from your own personality: being yourself.

However, something that none of the ladies will tell you (and probably criticize me for saying) is learn how to work with her emotions. Women's emotions effect everything they do far more than men. I'm not suggesting manipulation but the man who can trigger her emotions will have a far better chance are getting her attention and a date. "Bad Boys" are very good at this and in the end what allows them to manipulate women as they do.

The bad boy has a few characteristics to his defective personality that are very attractive to women:

1. They are uncontrollable and independent
2. They are always exciting
3. They are always a challenge
4. They always manipulate and trigger a woman's emotions
5. They are confident. Almost arrogant.

A true gentleman will not use her emotions to manipulate her but to draw her towards himself if he is interested.

Yep, bad boys and nice guys manipulate women. Whats your point?

It seems women have two gripes about men:

1. Bad boys use women.
2. The "nice guys" are boring and have no idea how to deal with women.

There's a difference between the bad boys manipulation and a nice guys touching her emotional buttons. Women constantly write how they want a man who can make them "FEEL"..........

Women want a man who can cause their emotions to come alive without using them for sex. So what's wrong with telling a guy about this.

A lot of men are clueless in this regard. Men usually are taught to get her attention he needs to hold the door, never argue, buy her flowers, etc. Chivalry has it's place but a man, first, needs to get her attention before he can "hold the door for her" and practice Chivalry.

Women are here because they want to find a man who can meet their emotional needs in the area of romance. Why is it so unethical to give him a straight answer?

The OP was asking how to talk to women. His question was straight forward and most of the answers are old standbys that men have tried and know don't really work. Are they part of a relationship? Sure. But they don't open the door. He has a very short period of time to make a good impression. If he doesn't understand how it works he'll always be relegated to the "friend zone".

And in the end you pretty much agree with what pyxxie and several others said the first time around about just being yourself. Then you also carefully suggest manipulation (while carefully stating you are not suggesting manipulation by any means mind you, but honestly what else do you call "triggering her emotions")

At the end of the day, the only honest thing any one of us can do, is approach someone and be ourselves, for good or bad. Whether it is the nice guy, silly and playful, cocky and arrogant, rude and obnoxious or dozens of other potential attitudes and personalities. Women are not vending machines waiting for some guy to mozy up and pop in a dollar to get a given expected product. They are living thinking people just like men, and they have their own ideas, opinions and ideals about what they want in life, men and love just like anyone else. She is quite capable of deciding for herself if you are worth it without you trying to use Jedi mind tricks on her there Obi-Wan.

If he gets stuck in the "friend zone"... well, that is the way it goes sometimes. Better to be himself and fail for his merits, than to succeed by a fable. It is more her loss than his at the end of the day (if he is a stand up guy at least) when you consider.


That is my personal opinion on it.

Details!
Women love details. If you practice, you can accurately pinpoint things that matter to her... This should not be confused with complimenting a woman. If you can remember details about, the first time you saw her or met or whatever, it is a surefire way of getting to talk to her and letting her know she made an impression on you.

Questions!
Most Women love to talk. If you ask intelligent questions, she'll be happy to answer... more so if the questions are about her. NOTE: don't be creepy and ask personal or intimate questions off the bat. It's crucial that you keep your head straight... as in listen carefully, there are important details in the answers she gives you. Some guys get completely in "awe", they can't believe the woman is actually talking to them. Stay focused! and ask more relevant questions and remember her answers.

Good luck!

Well said.

Ask more questions? What makes you think the woman will stop talking long enough to let the man get a word in?

Thats not what I said. What I said was nice guys can also manipulate women as well as bad boys. They just do it in a different way.

It's no different than women dressing to enhance specific anatomical parts in order to be noticed by men. Playing on his testosterone. Both genders use what they think works to get attention. Label it whatever you like it's still comes down to influencing (manipulating) each other for attention.

No games just be yourself.