What are your insecurities? Do you feel they will affect your dates or future relationships?






I can type a list if you like

me too.. a long list..lol

1. I'm short I feel like guys are always going to step on me.

2. I'm too straight forward on the first date. I hate wasting time on people who are incompatible so I get straight to the point. This can scare them away..

3. Sometimes I don't know how to talk to a dude. I can't figure out what a guy wants and how to keep that interest. For those I'm not interested, I can't figure out a EFFECTIVE way to turn them down.

There was a guy today that wouldn't take "no" for an answer. So I gave him a number I don't use ever.

I'm a train wreck, personally. I have trust issues, abandonment issues, poor self-esteem and a horrible body image. Other than that, I'm good....grin.........

LOL whisper.

I have self esteem issues even when I doll myself all up. Guys hit on me with "Hey beautiful, how you doin ma" or "Hi gorgeous."

But it always comes from guys I have no interest in what so ever

I'd tell ya but then I'd havta kill ya. j/k duh....I don't like to give out this kind of info online, but hold nothing against those who do. Just be careful ladies. Don't give anyone any amunition, ya know.....

Thank you creation. I'm aware of that

I won't give T.M.I

I know I'm self-conscience on some things, and that's why I tend to go ahead and push guys away before they even get a chance to get any closer.ha But, when they find out what's going on in my life at the moment that's the end of them..lol Nice to know how most guys handle situations before hand.:)

I think short women are fun to be around. I was talking to this one female cna where I work who is almost four foot tall and she was telling me what she did when she was little. I know little can apply to young as well as heighth.

You'd think I worked in "baggage claims" I get all the guys who
still want to carry all their excess crap around...

Nope not for me, you'll find me at the snack bar thank you very much....

Tossed my bags a long time ago and I aint carrying yours...

I have trust issues, due to past ex's.

I was hit in the eye when I was a kid with a bb gun now my eye don't open all the way. Girls judge quick.

I was insecure 'cause I was chubby but thats vanished :)

thats it for me..

i have no insecurities.

I am self-conscience of my siezures disorder the last couple guys i dated thought i was going to break so i just gave up i think i would rather be single...

Trust issues, but they are slowly going away.

K2theB: Know what you mean about the quick to judge thing. Sad, but true....MUAH

Greeneyedlady: You are TOO much!!

creationsfire: I'm gonna run all my prospective posts thru you because obviously you are totally right and I am retarded! That is excellent advice!

Now, I'd like to ammend my post:

I have no insecurities, and if you do, I'm not your therapist!

*****How's that??********* giggle.....

...i'm pretty confident in myself when it comes to relationships. Give me time with my friends and if she likes to spend time with my family then awesome.


I pretty much am a GREAT bf...

You are pretty much great all around.