Topic: Any one ideas why i dont get many messages.??
Lottierose's photo
Tue 04/03/12 01:39 PM
I have been on and of mingle since december and had about ten messages i have married and intimate encounters blocked as im after a boyfriend starting as friends.any ideas why i have so few messages.

no photo
Tue 04/03/12 01:47 PM
I have found that the key factor in getting messages is visibility in the forums. Once I had been in the forums for awhile, I started getting a lot of messages, which continues to be the case to this day -- for better or worse!

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bwaleykas's photo
Tue 04/03/12 02:32 PM
Normally when people send u a message and u dont reply they may feel unwanted so they wont send messages to u again.

Filmfreek's photo
Tue 04/03/12 04:09 PM
I'm not sure. It could be a number of factors. Maybe you need to add a little more info & pics to your profile? Could be location? Not sure how many Mingle members are on that side of the pond.

Posting in the forums regularly DOES help. It helps people get a better feel of what kind of person you really are.

Hope this helps.

Good luck!