This is harsh Ruth! Life is complicated and decisions arent always made based on what we want! Sometimes the emotional damage is too big to ingnore. I may be a lot of things but I dont think I am stupid no matter the decision I make.

Marilyn Monroe once said " I believe everythin happens fora reason. People cange so you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you can appreciate them when they're right. You believe lies so that you will learn to trust no one bu yourself, and sometimes, good thngs fall apart so better things can fall together."

Now given that time does heal all wounds... I believe we all make mistakes and yes sometimes the emotional hurt is sometimes to greater to move on and forgive. Sometimes it is worth making it work and sometimes it isn't. Given th circumstances.

Now we can all sit here and say how silly someone is for not running bac to Goof but we also only know one side of the relationship. Yes we all make mistakes and yes I feel everyone deserves a second chance. But maybe Stefy feels otherwise. Which she probablyhas very valid reasons. We don't know what happened... Thatis none of ou business. All we kow is that these two people are very wonerful and beautiful people. They both deserve happiness and to be forever happy but unfortunatey somtimes its too little too late. Regardless life lessons have been learned and sometimes they are very hard ones. All we can do is accept the things we cannot change and not regret them.

OP, That's a very sweet post :) You at least sound genuine enough in your apology. It was very heartfelt. Seems like you really do love her. Good luck.