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Topic: When a Guy Says
MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Wed 03/07/12 12:11 PM


DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Wed 03/07/12 12:13 PM


SunshineKissed Joined Fri 01/15/10 Posts: 1	Wed 03/07/12 03:11 PM
it means you need to give that dude the boot!

JERMANICUS Joined Sat 01/28/12 Posts: 597	Wed 03/07/12 03:19 PM
Guys are literal there is no hidden meaning behind his words that's what women do!

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Wed 03/07/12 03:26 PM
"We are not going to do things on your terms" ...wtf does that mean? Means he is selfish, also, run ;)

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Wed 03/07/12 03:36 PM


MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Wed 03/07/12 04:45 PM
"We are not going to do things on your terms" ...wtf does that mean? Means he is selfish, also, run ;) Hey gurl

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Wed 03/07/12 04:54 PM
It means it is time to disconnect the dots and be on your way. Cause if "we aren't doing things on your terms"...that means you are doing them on "My terms". f*** that! If you ain't doing things on "our terms"...you are wasting your time...let some other moron cater to the dude....if he is dumb enough to say something that stupid out loud....he is a f'kn idiot. You should only say things like that in your head....

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Wed 03/07/12 04:58 PM
It works both ways.... I didn't actually read all of this thread but, IF you are saying..."you should do this" or "don't do that"...constantly....I would have to agree with the "You ain't running this show" attitude. I don't know....just saying it out loud.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Wed 03/07/12 05:12 PM
It means it is time to disconnect the dots and be on your way. Cause if "we aren't doing things on your terms"...that means you are doing them on "My terms". f*** that! If you ain't doing things on "our terms"...you are wasting your time...let some other moron cater to the dude....if he is dumb enough to say something that stupid out loud....he is a f'kn idiot. You should only say things like that in your head.... Haha, that wasn't the first stupid thing he said. Guess he's one of those dolts that says what he's thinkin, ALL that he's thinkin. It works both ways.... I didn't actually read all of this thread but, IF you are saying..."you should do this" or "don't do that"...constantly....I would have to agree with the "You ain't running this show" attitude. I don't know....just saying it out loud. Yeah, not in this case I wasn't. It was just a simple phone call (his idea) he couldn't do, so I was just like "ok (azzhole) balls in your court" I should have really said go phuck yaself at that moment. I honestly did not want him to call me back after he put that out there.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Wed 03/07/12 05:20 PM
Good enough for me Darlin. (I know you ain't stupid so, I am gonna take your word for it) Note: when you get old and crusty like me, each stupid thing raises one red flag....when you see enough red flags....jump the hell out of the plane.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Wed 03/07/12 05:24 PM
I try not to be stupid. I heard that annoys peeps. I'm just at the age right now where I get bored with games; and boring men. Most of the time they are linked.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Wed 03/07/12 05:36 PM
Understandable....most people ain't that bright. Good to be at that age. It is awesome....old enough to no longer be a f'n retard but young enough to enjoy what you get. (I love that age)

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Wed 03/07/12 05:51 PM
I don't know yet...still trying to figure things out as I go. Guess we'll see who's gonna burn in the years to come. Oooh I can't wait. I definitely don't want to speed up my time. Where's the fun in that? If I get old and crusty one day, I'll look you up, that is if you haven't kicked the bucket.

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Thu 03/08/12 03:35 AM
"We are not going to do things on your terms" ...wtf does that mean? Means he is selfish, also, run ;) Hey gurl Hey you :p

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Fri 03/09/12 03:21 PM
"We are not going to do things on your terms" ...wtf does that mean? Means he is selfish, also, run ;) Hey gurl Hey you :p Hows it going across the pond with you?

heavenlyboy34 Joined Fri 07/04/08 Posts: 17348	Fri 03/09/12 03:49 PM
"We are not going to do things on your terms" ...wtf does that mean? Could mean you've been a pushy, controlling b**** and he's putting you in your place. I need more context to make an accurate judgement on this.

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Fri 03/09/12 04:34 PM
I don't agree with you HeavenlyDude , I think the guy was just being a f@cking azzhole and didn't have anything nice to say :)

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Fri 03/09/12 06:04 PM
I don't agree with you HeavenlyDude , I think the guy was just being a f@cking azzhole and didn't have anything nice to say :) I agree. I wouldn't expect anyone insane to grasp this concept.

Magicman1950 Joined Mon 03/05/12 Posts: 136	Fri 03/09/12 06:34 PM
I don't agree with you HeavenlyDude , I think the guy was just being a f@cking azzhole and didn't have anything nice to say :) I agree. I wouldn't expect anyone insane to grasp this concept. Mariah, you dont need his shiZ you deserve better then any man that would say that to you.