Topic: Dear anyone with a 69 in their name..
MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 02/15/12 11:02 AM


Goof needs to define this or else I won't understand



It's simple really. Guys with the number 73 in their name are total whores. :wink:


Enlightened and delighted.

navygirl's photo
Wed 02/15/12 11:03 AM




I think the bottom line is if a guy is looking for a real relationship; he isn't going to be taken seriously with a 69 in his name and most women will delete or block the guy.


You might be deleting or blocking some very interesting guys. After all its only a number once you get your head around it.




I am not saying me as I am not looking but other women might find that offensive. Lets face it your username says a lot about you and if you are going to use something with sexual inuendo; then its not really putting your best foot forward.


And if you choose to use something with a known sexual reference, you shouldn't be surprised or mad when people see it that way.


Exactly; people need to use some common sense when doing this. :thumbsup:

Optomistic69's photo
Wed 02/15/12 11:05 AM
Edited by Optomistic69 on Wed 02/15/12 11:07 AM



I think the bottom line is if a guy is looking for a real relationship; he isn't going to be taken seriously with a 69 in his name and most women will delete or block the guy.


You might be deleting or blocking some very interesting guys. After all its only a number once you get your head around it.




I am not saying me as I am not looking but other women might find that offensive. Lets face it your username says a lot about you and if you are going to use something with sexual inuendo; then its not really putting your best foot forward.


I used this name on another site and no one objected to it but I posted a link that showed the horrific consequences of war (photos of mangled dead men women and children)and there was uproar.

No accounting for taste...just saying




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Wed 02/15/12 11:11 AM



I've never once heard 911 referring to boobs before this post.



First Time for Everything..drinker



Me neither. I think it's a bit of a stretch. You can attach a sexual innuendo to almost anything, but if it involves that much of a reach, most people aren't going to catch it.



If your not in the Zone Lex one will never get it... that's life...some do some don't.. analyzing it wont improve it..waving drinker



Really, it makes no difference to me either way. I'm just saying that there are a lot of women who see it (69) as a red flag and a disincentive to communication. If you're OK with that, I certainly don't have any issues with it.

Optomistic69's photo
Wed 02/15/12 11:17 AM




Really, it makes no difference to me either way. I'm just saying that there are a lot of women who see it (69) as a red flag and a disincentive to communication. If you're OK with that, I certainly don't have any issues with it.




@singme
I've never once heard 911 referring to boobs before this post.

@Lex
Me neither. I think it's a bit of a stretch. You can attach a sexual innuendo to almost anything, but if it involves that much of a reach, most people aren't going to catch it.

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It was The 911 Boob Reference Lex.....911...Boobs...Twin Towers




cottonelle's photo
Wed 02/15/12 11:20 AM
wish i had put 69 at the end of my screen name. cottonelle69 would have really made a great topic to fuss about

navygirl's photo
Wed 02/15/12 11:25 AM
Edited by navygirl on Wed 02/15/12 11:26 AM




I think the bottom line is if a guy is looking for a real relationship; he isn't going to be taken seriously with a 69 in his name and most women will delete or block the guy.


You might be deleting or blocking some very interesting guys. After all its only a number once you get your head around it.




I am not saying me as I am not looking but other women might find that offensive. Lets face it your username says a lot about you and if you are going to use something with sexual inuendo; then its not really putting your best foot forward.


I used this name on another site and no one objected to it but I posted a link that showed the horrific consequences of war (photos of mangled dead men women and children)and there was uproar.

No accounting for taste...just saying



It has nothing to do with taste; its how its perceived. No one is telling you not to use that number in your username but as the Op says; she won't reply and some other women won't either. Just saying that a username can really be a turn off. If you are good with that; what does it matter what others think?

no photo
Wed 02/15/12 11:25 AM





Really, it makes no difference to me either way. I'm just saying that there are a lot of women who see it (69) as a red flag and a disincentive to communication. If you're OK with that, I certainly don't have any issues with it.




@singme
I've never once heard 911 referring to boobs before this post.

@Lex
Me neither. I think it's a bit of a stretch. You can attach a sexual innuendo to almost anything, but if it involves that much of a reach, most people aren't going to catch it.

===============================================================

It was The 911 Boob Reference Lex.....911...Boobs...Twin Towers






Whatever. I still think that one's a stretch. Assuming she's standing up, the "Twin Towers" would be projecting horizontally, which hardly meshes well with the "towers" imagery.

no photo
Wed 02/15/12 11:25 AM





Really, it makes no difference to me either way. I'm just saying that there are a lot of women who see it (69) as a red flag and a disincentive to communication. If you're OK with that, I certainly don't have any issues with it.




@singme
I've never once heard 911 referring to boobs before this post.

@Lex
Me neither. I think it's a bit of a stretch. You can attach a sexual innuendo to almost anything, but if it involves that much of a reach, most people aren't going to catch it.

===============================================================

It was The 911 Boob Reference Lex.....911...Boobs...Twin Towers






did you make that up?

Optomistic69's photo
Wed 02/15/12 11:46 AM





I think the bottom line is if a guy is looking for a real relationship; he isn't going to be taken seriously with a 69 in his name and most women will delete or block the guy.


You might be deleting or blocking some very interesting guys. After all its only a number once you get your head around it.




I am not saying me as I am not looking but other women might find that offensive. Lets face it your username says a lot about you and if you are going to use something with sexual inuendo; then its not really putting your best foot forward.


I used this name on another site and no one objected to it but I posted a link that showed the horrific consequences of war (photos of mangled dead men women and children)and there was uproar.

No accounting for taste...just saying



It has nothing to do with taste; its how its perceived. No one is telling you not to use that number in your username but as the Op says; she won't reply and some other women won't either. Just saying that a username can really be a turn off. If you are good with that; what does it matter what others think?


This Thread is not about me. The op is a teenager and I presume is addressing young people. I am not complaining in the least. And if someone rejects me because of my username well too bad...drinker

navygirl's photo
Wed 02/15/12 12:02 PM






I think the bottom line is if a guy is looking for a real relationship; he isn't going to be taken seriously with a 69 in his name and most women will delete or block the guy.


You might be deleting or blocking some very interesting guys. After all its only a number once you get your head around it.




I am not saying me as I am not looking but other women might find that offensive. Lets face it your username says a lot about you and if you are going to use something with sexual inuendo; then its not really putting your best foot forward.


I used this name on another site and no one objected to it but I posted a link that showed the horrific consequences of war (photos of mangled dead men women and children)and there was uproar.

No accounting for taste...just saying



It has nothing to do with taste; its how its perceived. No one is telling you not to use that number in your username but as the Op says; she won't reply and some other women won't either. Just saying that a username can really be a turn off. If you are good with that; what does it matter what others think?


This Thread is not about me. The op is a teenager and I presume is addressing young people. I am not complaining in the least. And if someone rejects me because of my username well too bad...drinker


I don't think she addressing just young people; she is addressing anyone using 69 which would include us older folk. JMO

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Wed 02/15/12 12:05 PM





Really, it makes no difference to me either way. I'm just saying that there are a lot of women who see it (69) as a red flag and a disincentive to communication. If you're OK with that, I certainly don't have any issues with it.




@singme
I've never once heard 911 referring to boobs before this post.

@Lex
Me neither. I think it's a bit of a stretch. You can attach a sexual innuendo to almost anything, but if it involves that much of a reach, most people aren't going to catch it.

===============================================================

It was The 911 Boob Reference Lex.....911...Boobs...Twin Towers


Does this mean you want to crash planes into her breasts until they are destroyed and then crash another plane into her pentagon?

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Wed 02/15/12 12:06 PM
This thread has taken a weird turn.

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 02/15/12 12:08 PM
Personally I don't assume 69 is meant sexual. There are other reasons someone might use this number (as said in this topic already)

I prefer to get to know someone before I assume they only want sex.

Although I didn't realize the sign for cancer looks like a 69 lol. Never thought of that one....good to know

navygirl's photo
Wed 02/15/12 12:21 PM

Personally I don't assume 69 is meant sexual. There are other reasons someone might use this number (as said in this topic already)

I prefer to get to know someone before I assume they only want sex.

Although I didn't realize the sign for cancer looks like a 69 lol. Never thought of that one....good to know


Well, honestly when I saw Optomistic69 as a username, I thought he was looking just for sex. I was surprised to see he actually wanted a relationship. As I said; its all about perception.

Optomistic69's photo
Wed 02/15/12 12:25 PM


Personally I don't assume 69 is meant sexual. There are other reasons someone might use this number (as said in this topic already)

I prefer to get to know someone before I assume they only want sex.

Although I didn't realize the sign for cancer looks like a 69 lol. Never thought of that one....good to know


Well, honestly when I saw Optomistic69 as a username, I thought he was looking just for sex. I was surprised to see he actually wanted a relationship. As I said; its all about perception.


All you had to do was ask the Question.flowerforyou


yellowrose10's photo
Wed 02/15/12 12:28 PM

Well, honestly when I saw Optomistic69 as a username, I thought he was looking just for sex. I was surprised to see he actually wanted a relationship. As I said; its all about perception.


Yeah I understand that. I'm not saying some people with 69 in their name aren't looking for just sex...heck people without 69 in their name are looking for sex laugh

I just know it has bitten me on the butt before (not with this particular situation) and I hate being called out for assuming laugh

I might be leery but I still give someone a chance until I'm proven right or wrong

Usually it doesn't take long to find out who is looking for some booty

navygirl's photo
Wed 02/15/12 12:40 PM
Edited by navygirl on Wed 02/15/12 12:44 PM



Personally I don't assume 69 is meant sexual. There are other reasons someone might use this number (as said in this topic already)

I prefer to get to know someone before I assume they only want sex.

Although I didn't realize the sign for cancer looks like a 69 lol. Never thought of that one....good to know


Well, honestly when I saw Optomistic69 as a username, I thought he was looking just for sex. I was surprised to see he actually wanted a relationship. As I said; its all about perception.


All you had to do was ask the Question.flowerforyou



Its just I too have had bad experiences with guys my age with the 69 in their name so I don't take them as wanting anything serious. As yellowrose said even guys without 69 want sex but its just the guys with the 69 are more open about it. Just saying.

no photo
Wed 02/15/12 12:48 PM



Personally I don't assume 69 is meant sexual. There are other reasons someone might use this number (as said in this topic already)

I prefer to get to know someone before I assume they only want sex.

Although I didn't realize the sign for cancer looks like a 69 lol. Never thought of that one....good to know


Well, honestly when I saw Optomistic69 as a username, I thought he was looking just for sex. I was surprised to see he actually wanted a relationship. As I said; its all about perception.


All you had to do was ask the Question.flowerforyou




Not many are going to use a previous year of marriage as part of their user name on a dating site. Maybe an explanation in your profile will help cut down on the misunderstandings?

navygirl's photo
Wed 02/15/12 12:53 PM
Edited by navygirl on Wed 02/15/12 12:54 PM




Personally I don't assume 69 is meant sexual. There are other reasons someone might use this number (as said in this topic already)

I prefer to get to know someone before I assume they only want sex.

Although I didn't realize the sign for cancer looks like a 69 lol. Never thought of that one....good to know


Well, honestly when I saw Optomistic69 as a username, I thought he was looking just for sex. I was surprised to see he actually wanted a relationship. As I said; its all about perception.


All you had to do was ask the Question.flowerforyou




Not many are going to use a previous year of marriage as part of their user name on a dating site. Maybe an explanation in your profile will help cut down on the misunderstandings?


Yep, good point. I guess the next guy that says P*ssy lover on his profile means that he is a cat lover and certainly not after sex. rofl rofl rofl