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Topic: Love and heartbreaks
Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Tue 02/07/12 08:40 PM
Haha a friend once told me: the best way to get over someone is to get under somebody else. Ha. :-P you just reminded me of that line. We used to have a good laugh over it. Haha., yeah. I agree with this. Every time :) I've dated a bipolar. That was before i even knew he was bipolar. He didn't find out he was, until we'd been together for about six years. I wonder why it took so long. Are there no obvious signs of these things during childhood? I know a few bipolar people (friends), and they feel like a stigma. I get that. I've been around enough of it to know. As long as you try to be as understanding as you can, when they're having problems, then i don't see why you can't get along with em. They just need someone to listen to them, really. It's quite a battle for em. Not all bipolar sufferers are bad people. Just that some can get way violent. That can be scary.

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Tue 02/07/12 08:42 PM
Just do what makes you happy, and live your life the way you want to. If you can be happy with yourself, being alone is not so bad. It takes time to get over someone you gave your heart to. Allow yourself to feel sad, but make time for yourself to be at peace about it. You will continue to break up with the wrong ones until you find the right one. Thats how its supposed to be. Definitely

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 02/07/12 08:44 PM Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Tue 02/07/12 08:46 PM
Surrounding yourself with great friends is the best way to cure a broken heart. I like to burn his things in the bath tub even if it's just a picture and some letters

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Tue 02/07/12 08:55 PM
Surrounding yourself with great friends is the best way to cure a broken heart. I like to burn his things in the bath tub even if it's just a picture and some letters If I'm being perfectly honest, that's a better idea. Vengeance heals all wounds.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 02/07/12 09:03 PM
Surrounding yourself with great friends is the best way to cure a broken heart. I like to burn his things in the bath tub even if it's just a picture and some letters If I'm being perfectly honest, that's a better idea. Vengeance heals all wounds. both prolly not a bad idea gotta get back into the pos+ energy flow after u wash the ashes down the tub and fumigate (voice of experience - I actually have done that)

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 02/07/12 09:12 PM
Whores. Whores are always good.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 02/07/12 09:16 PM
Whores. Whores are always good. always the "easy" way out..... I mean, doesn't that get kinda expensive? what about ice cream?

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 02/07/12 09:18 PM
Whores. Whores are always good. always the "easy" way out..... I mean, doesn't that get kinda expensive? what about ice cream? Eh....ruins my diet.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Tue 02/07/12 09:19 PM
Whores. Whores are always good. Whatever gets ya through the night.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 02/07/12 09:20 PM
Whores. Whores are always good. always the "easy" way out..... I mean, doesn't that get kinda expensive? what about ice cream? Eh....ruins my diet. just cut out carbs the next day

Phuque2 Joined Thu 11/20/08 Posts: 4927	Tue 02/07/12 09:32 PM
You really have to hand it to the blind prostitute...

teadipper Joined Wed 10/19/11 Posts: 2732	Tue 02/07/12 10:19 PM
Haha a friend once told me: the best way to get over someone is to get under somebody else. Ha. :-P you just reminded me of that line. We used to have a good laugh over it. Haha., yeah. I agree with this. Every time :) I've dated a bipolar. That was before i even knew he was bipolar. He didn't find out he was, until we'd been together for about six years. I wonder why it took so long. Are there no obvious signs of these things during childhood? I know a few bipolar people (friends), and they feel like a stigma. I get that. I've been around enough of it to know. As long as you try to be as understanding as you can, when they're having problems, then i don't see why you can't get along with em. They just need someone to listen to them, really. It's quite a battle for em. Not all bipolar sufferers are bad people. Just that some can get way violent. That can be scary. Okay this offends the holy F out of me. I am not a "bipolar". I do not "suffer from bipolar". Being a total azz wipe to you had nothing to do with his having a genetically different brain chemistry. I am a person who happens to have what they now know is a mostly genetic difference called bipolar disorder. I don't go around calling people "hazel eyers". Having bipolar disorder, as any genetic predisposition, is NOT CARTE BLANCHE TO BE AN ABUSIVE AZZ HOLE. SOME PEOPLE IN GENERAL GET WAY VIOLENT. It has nothing to do with having a brain chemical imbalance called bipolar which a lot of people have had their diagnosis changed from this. It was a catch all term for a long time. Why does everyone bring up bipolar in a bad light? Or how many of history's greats were and are bipolar? Or that it rides on the same gene as hemophilia they know now and most people who happen to have bipolar are well above average IQ? And those of us who do take our meds and do go to therapy and do function kick azz a multitasking, etc. and achieve high levels of success than normal people?

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Wed 02/08/12 12:44 PM
Surrounding yourself with great friends is the best way to cure a broken heart. I like to burn his things in the bath tub even if it's just a picture and some letters If I'm being perfectly honest, that's a better idea. Vengeance heals all wounds. Myself; I have never believed in revenge as it would be lowering myself to the guy's level but I sure do believe in Karma.