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Topic: Should u tell men straight out u hav kids?
trueokie2 Joined Mon 07/02/07 Posts: 1894	Sat 07/21/07 06:06 AM
as soon as i guy finds out u hav kids... see them run... i can't even catch them they run so fast... i love my kids they are all i hav... and i will be there for them no matter what... so why are men afraid of kids??? are men not kids there selfves.. i know sometimes im a big kid too..

coco56 Joined Sun 06/24/07 Posts: 12347	Sat 07/21/07 06:10 AM
morning hun i will say too bad for them if they run its their loss cus u are beautiful

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Sat 07/21/07 06:11 AM
yur a package hun, if he cant accept yur kids, he's not worth accepting.!!!!!!

trueokie2 Joined Mon 07/02/07 Posts: 1894	Sat 07/21/07 06:12 AM
awwwwwww thank you coco... u are very sweet... but a lot of men are scared of kids... don't u think?

AllSmilesInTulsa Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 1903	Sat 07/21/07 06:13 AM
It's not just men that run. I don't want to date a man whose children are not grown.

coco56 Joined Sun 06/24/07 Posts: 12347	Sat 07/21/07 06:13 AM
your welcome hun

trueokie2 Joined Mon 07/02/07 Posts: 1894	Sat 07/21/07 06:16 AM
but if u like someone and you are fallin for them should it matter if they hav kids?.. i would not care if a man had kids.. i would think it would be fun... i love big families tho

sweetklp40 Joined Tue 01/23/07 Posts: 4498	Sat 07/21/07 06:18 AM
let him go, true..any guy that does that is a loser

trueokie2 Joined Mon 07/02/07 Posts: 1894	Sat 07/21/07 06:22 AM
i hav to let him go cuz i can't catch him... they run really fast... hahahaha... almost afraid to tell men i hav kids... scary... but they are apart of me... i think a guy should know... don't u?

AllSmilesInTulsa Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 1903	Sat 07/21/07 06:24 AM
I would tell them. I would feel deceived if someone did not disclose that to me. Don't get me wrong, I love kids and can't wait for grandchildren. I have raised mine, my career is demanding, and I prefer not to have to plan my life around someone's children.

sweetklp40 Joined Tue 01/23/07 Posts: 4498	Sat 07/21/07 06:24 AM
kids come first, darlin..always, screw the men u dont need em..

trueokie2 Joined Mon 07/02/07 Posts: 1894	Sat 07/21/07 06:27 AM
yes i believe that children are very important... raising them is not easy... but watchin them grow up is fun... thank you ladies...

Greyhound Joined Fri 08/11/06 Posts: 20290	Sat 07/21/07 06:38 AM
Yes,yes,yes... tell them right away you have children. It's a package deal. Mom,kids,kids mom.

Heart_Break_Kid Joined Wed 06/06/07 Posts: 3978	Sat 07/21/07 06:43 AM
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm interesting

BR77R Joined Thu 07/05/07 Posts: 939	Sat 07/21/07 06:47 AM
You should mention it in your 1st conversation somehow. That way it's out there, from the start.

Heart_Break_Kid Joined Wed 06/06/07 Posts: 3978	Sat 07/21/07 06:48 AM
the questions mainly is why do we run lol

kidatheart70 Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 6234	Sat 07/21/07 06:49 AM
Yes, it's a package deal and you should tell them right from the start. Why is it that if someone, regaurdless if it's a man or a woman, is a loser if they don't want to get involved? I don't understand that at all. Wouldn't you rather have them be up front and honest about something like that? People make choices based on what they want out of life. Some don't want kids.

Greyhound Joined Fri 08/11/06 Posts: 20290	Sat 07/21/07 06:49 AM
chicken ****

Heart_Break_Kid Joined Wed 06/06/07 Posts: 3978	Sat 07/21/07 06:50 AM
lol well some want kids but not a woman with kids you see the difference? i have heard it from my friends a lot of times

izzie Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 31834	Sat 07/21/07 06:51 AM
i have had men tell me that they are afraid of kids.. and you know what.. thats their loss, my kids area amazing, adn make my life full. if they cant deal with that thats to bad.. yes definately tell them strait out.. if nuthin else it will ward off the loosers from waisting your time!! ok im off to work now!