Community > General Discussion

Topic: What are you bringing to the table?
LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Mon 01/16/12 07:58 AM
However, I am always one of those guys that everyone says they are looking for, yet when they find me they pass me over for the exact opposite of what they claim they seek. Same here, and eventually it occurred to me that what they're "looking for" is only the tip of the iceberg -- there's a preconceived, extremely narrow agenda underneath, and the moment you deviate in any way from the perception that you're OK with being a part of that, you're done.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Mon 01/16/12 08:04 AM Edited by Jeanniebean on Mon 01/16/12 08:06 AM
However, I am always one of those guys that everyone says they are looking for, yet when they find me they pass me over for the exact opposite of what they claim they seek. Same here, and eventually it occurred to me that what they're "looking for" is only the tip of the iceberg -- there's a preconceived, extremely narrow agenda underneath, and the moment you deviate in any way from the perception that you're OK with being a part of that, you're done. I've found that to be true about a lot of men. In my last marriage I thought I had a lot of faults. But after I got divorced, I realized I was perfect.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Mon 01/16/12 08:05 AM
My profile pretty much explains me.I think the very last sentence though is what scares women away or my photos or both.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Mon 01/16/12 08:07 AM
My profile pretty much explains me.I think the very last sentence though is what scares women away or my photos or both. I don't find anything scary about you.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Mon 01/16/12 08:08 AM
I have all seven seasons of Buffy the Vampire Slayer in a collector's edition and the Buffy musical episode soundtrack on cd. Maybe I need to put that on my profile.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Mon 01/16/12 08:14 AM Edited by Jeanniebean on Mon 01/16/12 08:14 AM
I have all seven seasons of Buffy the Vampire Slayer in a collector's edition and the Buffy musical episode soundtrack on cd. Maybe I need to put that on my profile. That's what you are bringing to the table for a relationship? What if something happens to your collection? Divorce?

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Mon 01/16/12 08:16 AM
I have all seven seasons of Buffy the Vampire Slayer in a collector's edition and the Buffy musical episode soundtrack on cd. Maybe I need to put that on my profile. That's what you are bringing to the table for a relationship? What if something happens to your collection? Divorce? That's all I got.

Optomistic69 Joined Mon 10/10/11 Posts: 5173	Mon 01/16/12 08:18 AM
I have all seven seasons of Buffy the Vampire Slayer in a collector's edition and the Buffy musical episode soundtrack on cd. Maybe I need to put that on my profile. That's what you are bringing to the table for a relationship? What if something happens to your collection? Divorce? You talking about divorce already?

1SOPHIAIUX Joined Sun 10/09/11 Posts: 881	Mon 01/16/12 08:21 AM Edited by 1SOPHIAIUX on Mon 01/16/12 08:28 AM
Food for thought! and action! Both ways sharing ; inclusive , reflective, pro-active, playful!

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Mon 01/16/12 08:29 AM
Useless film trivia. Great! I have trivial pursuit! I pretty much suck at all the other categories.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Mon 01/16/12 08:29 AM
I have all seven seasons of Buffy the Vampire Slayer in a collector's edition and the Buffy musical episode soundtrack on cd. Maybe I need to put that on my profile. That's what you are bringing to the table for a relationship? What if something happens to your collection? Divorce? You talking about divorce already? Not for us dear.

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Mon 01/16/12 08:31 AM
I have all seven seasons of Buffy the Vampire Slayer in a collector's edition and the Buffy musical episode soundtrack on cd. Maybe I need to put that on my profile. That's what you are bringing to the table for a relationship? What if something happens to your collection? Divorce? That's all I got. I think it's impressive.

skywisper Joined Mon 03/21/11 Posts: 1213	Mon 01/16/12 08:31 AM
Oh a little fried chicken.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Mon 01/16/12 08:33 AM
Optomistic69, come lets go hot tubbing! Bring the wine.

Optomistic69 Joined Mon 10/10/11 Posts: 5173	Mon 01/16/12 08:35 AM
Optomistic69, come lets go hot tubbing! Bring the wine. Red or White?

Optomistic69 Joined Mon 10/10/11 Posts: 5173	Mon 01/16/12 08:41 AM
However, I am always one of those guys that everyone says they are looking for, yet when they find me they pass me over for the exact opposite of what they claim they seek. Same here, and eventually it occurred to me that what they're "looking for" is only the tip of the iceberg -- there's a preconceived, extremely narrow agenda underneath, and the moment you deviate in any way from the perception that you're OK with being a part of that, you're done. I've found that to be true about a lot of men. In my last marriage I thought I had a lot of faults. But after I got divorced, I realized I was perfect. And the truth is...YOU REALLY ARE! Just gotta find the right match. Love the hot tub deck....Im bringing the chicken wings. Yes she is perfect .... I just love Chicken Wings...

winterblue56 Joined Sun 12/12/10 Posts: 2465	Mon 01/16/12 08:41 AM
Optomistic69, come lets go hot tubbing! Bring the wine. Wow...Jeanie...very nice....that yours?

pareskivi Joined Thu 07/28/11 Posts: 7	Mon 01/16/12 08:43 AM
I'm bringing......wait for it........THE manO I think you mean the menu

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Mon 01/16/12 08:53 AM
I have all seven seasons of Buffy the Vampire Slayer in a collector's edition and the Buffy musical episode soundtrack on cd. Maybe I need to put that on my profile. That's what you are bringing to the table for a relationship? What if something happens to your collection? Divorce? That's all I got. I think it's impressive. Thank you.

prashant01 Joined Wed 05/06/09 Posts: 14148	Mon 01/16/12 09:01 AM
For me: ..... I give up.... I got nothing.