Hi lovely lady. I'm perty sure...

I just got a mail thingy and it still isn't there. Sup with that?
Kat

Ermmm....wow.

*Cracks neck and knuckles* This is pretty cut and dry dude. If you want to use the Bible as your bible, while interpretations vary the ideal choice (according to the Bible) would be to work through the issues -not to cheat, etc.

As for the guy who's kid this may be *low whistle* Well according to the Bible you should not even associate with sinners (and yeah, there are more sins then there are syllables in that interesting triangle you painted for us), so he is condmened as well. Fortunately, if you believe Jesus is your savior, you have been baptized, and you repent the wickedness and sin in your life, God will forgive you and you can go to Heaven. Jesus said it in the New Testament, so He's a pretty credible source.

My opinion... walk away and let that relationship run its course. If it's your kid, claim custody and bring him out of there and raise the kid yourself. If he's beating her, the guy should be in jail, and they should be getting a divorce. The wife-beater should have the busiest cell on the block for hitting her. Period. As for the adulterous wife...there are plenty of women who are in worse predicaments than hers who don't cheat because of honor, respect for a vow, and because they are sensitive to the fact that they are bringing their problems into each bed they hop into. In my opinion, if you are philandering as a victim-wife...well maybe that's not an honest picture.

What I mean is, some women lie. It is entirely possible that she is just saying he hit her because he grabbed her arm when she was hitting him. After all, if he is such a beast, why would she risk a beating by sleeping with multiple partners...not just one? I'd write more, but I'm sleepy.

For your own good, ditch the lady and grab the kid. I can't see how you can possibly think she would be faithful, and the kid did nothing but swim the fastest...he's innocent