This seem's to be some night for me, I known these two friends for the longest time you could say I grew up with them and all through out school and even now etc.

It just seemed after I moved with my mom and dad and family from one area of Michigan to another which is a bit more of a drive if that, that my so called best friends or friend rather is making a big deal about waiting to see a movie etc.

It's like I have to come up with a ride to get down there and get him a ride to the movies and or to hang out and back again etc, my so called friend doesn't have a car etc but like me finds ways to get around etc.

I however depend on my family for the most part to get me back and fort to work and I in return help pay for gas etc to do so.

My friend calls me tonight to get on to things, about when I would like to go to the movies, I go around the 30th or so and he blows up about that, I'm thinking oh my god.. that is crazy. Because I will be a little busy this week and hardy get a break from work etc plus I might get an interview with this one company so I'm trying to keep things open as I can.

What pisses me off is my friend acts so stuck up at times it's not even funny and at times I do feel I am being used but yet he and his brother are the only two friends that hang out willingly to go to a movie or mall etc.

Bottom line is it is pissing me off, I don't have a whole lot of money, because like most people who have jobs also have bills and other things to take care of instead of going to sporting events and movies year round.

Sure who wouldn't love to go to the movies every single week when a new release is out, I sure would not and though I can not affored it right now I make the best of things.

I know these two friends of my do not understand etc, then I go what will you do when your mom and dad die you can't affored to go to all them sporting events and they go yeah they pay for them 100%, now his brother get's ssi and I don't know but they claim he get's three checks or more a month which I doubt but oh well, I know others who get ssi and it's mostly only one check a month unless it's something new and I don't know about it, then he got stick of me and his brother was talkin to him and he told me he call me tomorrow which would be later today now, so I just hanged up out of getting a bit angery.

So am I over all stuiped or just I don't know what to keep two friends who can't repsect me and treat me nice etc.

I mean there has been times when I did have a car I would take them to the mall and sporting events before I and my family moved and I got into an accident etc.

Don't know, at times I almost don't feel like every speaking to them again but I don't have any other friends, other then one that I talk to on the phone but he never wants to hang out.

So I guess I'm just screwed or something.

your not screwed man

Well it's crazy, how I feel I have less friends off line then I do online.

But that isn't the biggest problem, it's more unless finding I guess more friends that don't treat me or use me like this.

I mean where you tell a friend you go to a movie every week or you ask them when can you hang out etc.

I mean okay I as some if not many of you may or may not already know am the type of person who cares and goes out of the way to help another as long as it's a reasonable thing to do etc, but I just feel so I don't know mad right now about this is the way my friend treats me and yet there is noting or almost noting I can do about it.

Hey John are you crazy , they are not your Friends they are just your buddies. It is easy to have friends. But some Friends who you thought was great you will fine out who your real Friends are. He would not complain, and he would still have your back , unless you live far away . I have plenty of Friends, but my only close Friends are my Relatives ONLY . I have great Friends but some hang out with bad new . They are grown up just like you, they just have to act their age, and the only thing we can do is hope the best .

I get what your saying Terry. I mean it's not like I moved far away from where I used to live, my family only moved like a half hour away from where we used to live, which isn't bad.

But I guess your right.

I have a lot of Friends but only 1 key Friend since High School . I have a lot of people who said that they were my Friend , but I never said the same thing to them. Even with Friends they may think your cool. But I know for fact friends will want to know everything about you, just to get on your good side . The only one that was screwed was your so called Friends . This is a Fact watch who and what you say to certain Friends, because they will talk about you when your not around .

Yeah your probably right.

I mean just when you think you have the greatest of friends.. things change etc.

It's kinda crazy.

I must however add this doesn't make me feel any better. But I guess I have to take things as it is.