Yeah that's right, the married men of America need to be entertained. SOMEbody has to do it.

this made me LOL because an ex once told me porn was for single people & I told him..."ha, you've obviously never been married"

I didn't know you lived in Jersey, what exit?

BTW, this is a local joke us in PA have for people from Jersey. Kinda like: Why are New Yorkers always so mad. Because they realize the light at the end of the tunnel is New Jersey.

Wait, wait... I got more somewhere...

Thanks and same to you!

Hi, Thanks for your post. You've made some good points.

I would like to point out that I am not complaining. I was just saying that you can't dump a bad label on a whole gender or group of people because of a bad experience. And as you've hinted, we all have to take accountability for ourselves.

This sums up my hope for the future:

"I think everyone should get back to what really matters. Finding people you really connect with and taking the time to enjoy the "whole" experience. That includes, friendship, chemistry, learning from each other, growing as a result, and discovering the little "mysteries" that make us all (as indivual) so special and unique."

Peace & Blessings!
:)

...then what about helping people to better understand a situation? If someone called you a "liar", and miss-understood what you were"truly" all about. Wouldn't you kindly correct them?

"True ignorance isn't a choice. But once you know the true nature of a thing, then you can choose to live in bliss"

-JLH

You're absolutely right. Some people just don't want to change, and there is nothing you can do about that.

What I'm trying to say, is that you can at lest share your knowledge with people. Especially if it could help them. Then if they can make up their own minds. If a child kept burning himself because he likes to pay with matches...wouldn't you tell the child to "stop playing with matches or your get burned?" And yes, sometimes as adults, we need to be reminded of simple examples like that.

This whole topic came about because Men claimed they couldn't find "good Women". So I shared my ideas about why this was. That's it. I may have expounded on the subject to make it broader...but that's all it is.

Someone said it best: "know yourself, look for inner qualities that compliment your own, and don't bother with the negative." I feel that this can be applied to life. We all have a choice. Some of us like to learn and grow...others are comfortable in their own misery. Some are neutral...but we are all free to make that choice.

Peace & Blessings!

Either way, I wish everyone the best of luck, health, happiness and success!

Peace & Blessings!