Topic: Ok i'm back to help a friend.
skywisper's photo
Fri 01/06/12 11:35 AM
I had an old friend stop by the other day who was very confused and asked me this question?.You know iv been to the same women for over 20 years and i truly love her right.





Yes i said,well in the last 3 years the thought of having sex with her makes me sick lol,thing is though the thought is not just with her its any body,sex turns me off.Growing up with this guy that's strange cuz he's a sex addict.



I told him don't waist any time go see your doctor cuz you got a problem lol.Well it turns out he does have a problem his Testosterone
level is almost zero,doc says the fineness lap dancer in the world couldn't get him hard.





So he has been taking Testosterone for over a month now and he tells me its doing nothing.So he's question & mine is can a married couple survive this?.Its effecting there marriage and i know he loves her as he did when they first met its not his fault really so what should he do?.

navygirl's photo
Fri 01/06/12 11:23 PM

I had an old friend stop by the other day who was very confused and asked me this question?.You know iv been to the same women for over 20 years and i truly love her right.

Yes i said,well in the last 3 years the thought of having sex with her makes me sick lol,thing is though the thought is not just with her its any body,sex turns me off.Growing up with this guy that's strange cuz he's a sex addict.


I told him don't waist any time go see your doctor cuz you got a problem lol.Well it turns out he does have a problem his Testosterone
level is almost zero,doc says the fineness lap dancer in the world couldn't get him hard.


So he has been taking Testosterone for over a month now and he tells me its doing nothing.So he's question & mine is can a married couple survive this?.Its effecting there marriage and i know he loves her as he did when they first met its not his fault really so what should he do?.



I would suggest he keep trying to get help from the doctor. I know of three couples personally two in their 60s and one in their 80s that do not have sex anymore but still love each other very much; so yes if they love each other they can get through this.

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Sat 01/07/12 07:21 AM
If they love each other enough, there are ways to have an intimate relationship w/o having actual "sex"

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Sat 01/07/12 05:07 PM
If he just doesn't want to have sex, he definatley needs therapy. If it's because of his ED he needs to see his doctor. Examine what medication he is on, what other disease he may have. Such as diabities, high colesterol, etc. The meds to treat these diseases can also cause ED. Oral sex may help him feel better about his problem.

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Sat 01/07/12 05:54 PM

If he just doesn't want to have sex, he definatley needs therapy. If it's because of his ED he needs to see his doctor. Examine what medication he is on, what other disease he may have. Such as diabities, high colesterol, etc. The meds to treat these diseases can also cause ED. Oral sex may help him feel better about his problem.
I think he just doesnt want to have sex or it dont turn him on any more.

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Sat 01/07/12 05:58 PM
If sex no longer turns him on at all, perhaps he needs to get some therapy if he actually wants to fix what's going on. There's also couples therapy that I'm sure they can go to together.

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Thu 01/12/12 07:45 PM
5 people wow wasnt quite the turn out and amount of answers i was looking for but when your stuck back here where nobody ever comes to i guess thats the way it go's.I hate to say it but i'm going to take thas question to anther site cuz i need to help my friend and its not going to happen here.Later