I was the guy wearing the smahhhhty pants...pretty easy to spot in there!

I would like to be in a committed relationship again someday. But I will NOT get married again. So, I don't worry as much about that stuff. However, if you were gonna marry, I agree with the OP.

That was YOU??

well

for some reason this thread makes me sad- reading it, I have suddenly realized that I am sad at doing so


and, as is often the case, I agree with Ladylid

YOU ALL CAN'T HANDLE MY TRUTH!!!!

Well,,for THAT matter,,,neither can I........








Kidding,,,I think anything that was GOOD or BAD that was something AT ITS TIME,,,To make that person feel hurt,,
IS VERY IMPORTANT,,,

As for comparing portfolio's,,THAT is all THERE worries not mine,,as long as its honest and not stolen,,, WHO CARES.

I could and would allow anyone torun a background check on me and ALL of my life,,and THAT would be FINE,,,not an issue at all to me..
And IF THAT discorage them from LOVING ME,,,THEN,,IT WASN'T A REAL LOVE ANYWAY!

Sorry, but until i've known a potential for at least a year, they're not seeing anything as private as that, from me. I just don't worry about that sort of thing. I really have more important things to worry about, like my health, for one thing. Worrying about when to show a new lover credit history just seems kinda non-entity. Maybe i don't understand. I have nothing to hide from anyone anyway, regarding private information, so even if said person DID find everything out about me, i'd have no reason to batter an eyelid about it. Still, better being safe than sorry i guess. I just think why bother doing it though, unless you really wanna know? Love shouldn't be about money. Well, it wasn't, the last time i looked.

with fifty percent of first marriages and seventy five percent of second marriages ending in divorce does anybody really commit?

I have no criminal record to worry about and just had a police check done on me as part of my job. As for my past; like for example; my childhood; nope that is off limits. I may give the highlights about it but I won't go into depth about my childhood or have long conversations about it.

I have no criminal record to worry about and just had a police check done on me as part of my job. As for my past; like for example; my childhood; nope that is off limits. I may give the highlights about it but I won't go into depth about my childhood or have long conversations about it.

I have nothing to hide however, I will not become a open book for the world.

some of us did....but some of us apparently didn't commit to someone who defined the word "commit" in our same language