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Ok I've been on this website for three years now. I've been messaging women who claim "we are looking for a nice guy". But I am either ignored, or I get scammers. Is it normal for EVERY SINGLE WOMEN to ignore a person? or is it just me?
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Umm...first...not EVERY single woman, OR MAN, is going to ignore someone...or be dishonest. That's just life for some to be either way, or not respond to others-both online AND in real life. We've all been lied to, played-even scammed, both in life and on these sites, you just drop the ones that are and move on. You also learn a little more as you go on what to look for, how to phrase things, what questions to ask, etc. A very good way to learn about people here is in the forums. Not saying you WILL find the love of your life in the forums...or even on this site, but if someone (even if they don't post alot) sees YOUR posts, and gets to know a little bit about you, they might contact YOU.
Hello and welcome by the way. 
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Hmm posting often eh? That is a good point. This is my first post I ever did anyways. I don't know Indigo. I am not trying to be negative, but I have like the worst luck with women. I'm not talking about "finding the right one". I am talking about "attracting".
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Ok I've been on this website for three years now. I've been messaging women who claim "we are looking for a nice guy". But I am either ignored, or I get scammers. Is it normal for EVERY SINGLE WOMEN to ignore a person? or is it just me? So are you saying that you are a "nice guy?" What do you say in your message? What do you have in common with the women that you message? |
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Worry not my good man.
I just answered your post in the other thread. You have finally stumbled into the place where you got an honest to God shot at meeting a woman worth meeting. Trust me on this one Dude. This is the place to be (the forums)....this site DOES work. The more you hang out...the more you figure out who is cool and who ain't. Who you would like to spend time with...and who is a schittload of misery just waiting to happen. Don't lose heart bro. You took the long way but, you made it to the hunting grounds. Now...just jump in and be the real you. These chicks dig tat kind of thing. |
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@Jean: Well I start off with the simple "hey how are you?" thing. Apparently nothing's working right now.
@krupa: I never even noticed this part of mingle before. I am still learning how to use it |
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Hmm posting often eh? That is a good point. This is my first post I ever did anyways. I don't know Indigo. I am not trying to be negative, but I have like the worst luck with women. I'm not talking about "finding the right one". I am talking about "attracting". Even attracting someone takes getting them to know you a little, sometimes even before others will either make the attempt to contact you...or answer when you contact them. Especially if they've been at this online thing awhile, they have become a little wary themselves. Believe me, we have all had our share of, uh, less than desirable ones to interact with, or been completely ignored...neither feels very nice, but it gives you experience and one step closer to the RIGHT one...eventually.  Other than that, you make a few cool friends along the way, and have some fun too. 
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Ok I've been on this website for three years now. I've been messaging women who claim "we are looking for a nice guy". But I am either ignored, or I get scammers. Is it normal for EVERY SINGLE WOMEN to ignore a person? or is it just me? Call um wicked, but hey there are guys here who also ignore women - will that make the issue equal? 
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Well that's true.
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Edited by
krupa
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Tue 12/27/11 06:07 PM
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I'm not talking about "finding the right one". I am talking about "attracting". That is easy. Be relaxed and happy. Look EVERYONE in the eye and smile or at least give the nod of acknowledgement. Smile at every woman. Hold a door open if it means you gotta wait 20 seconds. Act like you don't care if you bag them or not. Smile..give a compliment (gorgeous eyes, Cool shoes, Great hair)..THEN WALK AWAY.......it creeps them out if you stand there expecting a response. But, if you treat a woman with basic courtesy and respect...and just step the hell on......8 times out of 10...that chick will find a reason to come up and talk to you. The same holds true in these forums. |
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@newg78: I didn't even think guys would ignore messages from women. The only message from women I ignored were the scammers.
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I'm not going to be ignored, Dan!!
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I'm not going to be ignored, Dan!! Now I see someone likes "hot crossed bunnies" |
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Fatal Attraction.
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Ok I've been on this website for three years now. I've been messaging women who claim "we are looking for a nice guy". But I am either ignored, or I get scammers. Is it normal for EVERY SINGLE WOMEN to ignore a person? or is it just me? i may get labeled a douche or get slammed for this but here goes... i have been on this site for a day or two and have a couple of posts, and this is what i have come across (this is a personal experience and your results may not be the same) posting is a cool way to interact with people, but the ladies here that have a lot of posts are usually not looking for a nice guy. most of the ones i have spoken with are not interested in a relationship and will give various reasons. the older women seem to be set in their ways and are really not interested in changing or compromising personally, i have gotten discouraged and have thought about deactivating my account, but usually one of the "regulars" will talk me out of it. i have seen this site work for others and in the long run i am still hopeful. bottom line bro, start posting and keep a positive attitude. you may find some that irritate you, but the ones that put a smile on your face will be far more. i guarantee i guarantee that (bulldog double guarantee - patent pending) |
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NOT just you ........It happens to me too???? lol
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@newg78: I didn't even think guys would ignore messages from women. The only message from women I ignored were the scammers. Some do especially when they base their judgement on the girl's profile then they become discriminative. Well I got one that busted me lol - real lame. Shame on me  oh no shame on him 1M times!
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NOT just you ........It happens to me too???? lol You're not ugly lol. |
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Ok I've been on this website for three years now. I've been messaging women who claim "we are looking for a nice guy". But I am either ignored, or I get scammers. Is it normal for EVERY SINGLE WOMEN to ignore a person? or is it just me? i may get labeled a douche or get slammed for this but here goes... i have been on this site for a day or two and have a couple of posts, and this is what i have come across (this is a personal experience and your results may not be the same) posting is a cool way to interact with people, but the ladies here that have a lot of posts are usually not looking for a nice guy. most of the ones i have spoken with are not interested in a relationship and will give various reasons. the older women seem to be set in their ways and are really not interested in changing or compromising personally, i have gotten discouraged and have thought about deactivating my account, but usually one of the "regulars" will talk me out of it. i have seen this site work for others and in the long run i am still hopeful. bottom line bro, start posting and keep a positive attitude. you may find some that irritate you, but the ones that put a smile on your face will be far more. i guarantee i guarantee that (bulldog double guarantee - patent pending) Ohhhhhh you BATHTARD!!!! (squealing like Liberace' stepping on a cat) We had so much together... Not like fags....more like lonely vikings!  REALLLLLLY lonely vikings. |
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Ok I've been on this website for three years now. I've been messaging women who claim "we are looking for a nice guy". But I am either ignored, or I get scammers. Is it normal for EVERY SINGLE WOMEN to ignore a person? or is it just me? Everyone gets turned down or feels ignored at times. It's how the whole man/woman dynamic works. When you send a stranger a message on here, it's the same as approaching them on the street. People get a little freaked out by that. The fine people posting here will tell you to interact in the forums for awhile and get to know them in a non invasive way. Good luck and I hope you make some good friends bud. |
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