Topic: Why young guys should date and marry older women
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Fri 12/23/11 01:43 PM
Maybe because I have raised my kids and am not married any more, I find my sex drive has increased since I have turned 50!!! I prefer an older lady (40 or above)because they seem settled down in their life, but I have dated younger ones and they were fun too!!!:wink: :banana: drinker

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Fri 12/23/11 02:37 PM


Older Women generally have more money and can spoil the guy , I mean that is my main reason for dating older women. lol

then again I may be a gold digger hahaha


really - don;t waste your time here waiting for that to happen

older women also have more expenses

so, again, good luck with that - you're young it's your turn to learn how to spoil ushuh


I'll spoil an older woman in bed hahaha ... lol hell I am a broke fighter I am the trophy boy toy jut liek an aspiring model is the trophy girl we both broke hahaha so in return they just make sure my broke as is fed and expenses covered and it can be a great relationship,

I was lucky to have something like this for a few months hahhahaa

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Fri 12/23/11 02:51 PM
my sex drive has not decreased hardly at all since my twenties except there are less double O's

What I can't understand is that even when all a girl has to do is show up, older women still don't seem nearly as interested in sex.

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Fri 12/23/11 03:01 PM

my sex drive has not decreased hardly at all since my twenties except there are less double O's

What I can't understand is that even when all a girl has to do is show up, older women still don't seem nearly as interested in sex.


It's not that we're less interested in sex, it's that we are more selective about who we have it with...whoa

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Fri 12/23/11 03:11 PM
As far as I can tell older women don't even have sex with themselves as much as they used to.

talk your way out of that one!.....lmao

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Fri 12/23/11 03:20 PM

As far as I can tell older women don't even have sex with themselves as much as they used to.

talk your way out of that one!.....lmao


OK.....You're wrong...bigsmile

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Fri 12/23/11 04:20 PM



In general, women live 10 or even 20 years longer than men.

Older women know what they want you don't have to guess.

They are more experienced, and better cooks.

Got any more reasons?

Post them here.





No wonder I can't get a date! All the women in my age group are dating younger men.
no worries bro, show the cougars how the old lions still got their pride. Wave your tail up in the air, roar!!

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Fri 12/23/11 04:35 PM
I don't have the energy to date a younger guy. I want someone to grow old with, not re-live my youth with.

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Fri 12/23/11 04:36 PM
dont know about dating an older woman but do have to say the idea of not worrying about her getting prego is definately a plus also the maturity of some is better to relax with i ocaisionally see a fine looking cougar here an there an dam the luck either il be with family members or newphews .an i never tell any of my family who i am going out with it never works out good for me descrete is a major plus an the no strings to start out is good to.smokin

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Fri 12/23/11 04:37 PM

As far as I can tell older women don't even have sex with themselves as much as they used to.

talk your way out of that one!.....lmao


As far as you can tell??? I didn't realize guys could tell when you've been doing that. embarassed

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Fri 12/23/11 04:39 PM

Actually, what many older men don't realize is that diet is very important to maintain sex drive past a certain age.

Carrots, celery, and tomatoes together contain all the essential building blocks for male hormones. Making sure these three vegetables are a regular part of your diet will help offset the effects of aging in the male libido.


Odd that you would bring this up. Last night I watched a couple of videos about the importance of food to stay healthy and even cure disease.

Then I watched a video (Netflix) on the food industry (chicken and beef) and I suddenly have a strong desire to become a vegetarian.sick sick

So basically, I've just gone on a "health food" and "organic food" kick.

I want to feel better, lose weight, and super charge my sex drive.


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Fri 12/23/11 06:43 PM

my sex drive has not decreased hardly at all since my twenties except there are less double O's

What I can't understand is that even when all a girl has to do is show up, older women still don't seem nearly as interested in sex.


My sex experience is that some guys still don't have a clue what to do in bed. Three that stand out in my mind were all in their 50s and I swear they had the knowledge of a 19 year old. The other factor age and not to be to graphic but more guys should be using Viagra. Guys I don't mean this in a nasty way as age does affect our sex drives as we get older. We may not like to admit it but it does. I know friends of mine in their 50s that are married and the couples have both lost their sex drive and then people in their 60s that have a great sex drive. Funny how each of our bodies react to age and I will add stress. If one is stressed all the time; your stress level will certainly drop and that is normal.

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Fri 12/23/11 06:53 PM



Older Women generally have more money and can spoil the guy , I mean that is my main reason for dating older women. lol

then again I may be a gold digger hahaha


really - don;t waste your time here waiting for that to happen

older women also have more expenses

so, again, good luck with that - you're young it's your turn to learn how to spoil ushuh


I'll spoil an older woman in bed hahaha ... lol hell I am a broke fighter I am the trophy boy toy jut liek an aspiring model is the trophy girl we both broke hahaha so in return they just make sure my broke as is fed and expenses covered and it can be a great relationship,

I was lucky to have something like this for a few months hahhahaa


well good luck with that - I personally am not interested in a trophy "boy" myself - as I was a trophy wife for many many years and it brings only pain. I cannot see how viewing another as a financial resource can be a great relationship. we see things very differently. you sell yourself to a woman so you can fight? I find that sad.

I'm not the kind to buy affections. I would not want a man who I had to purchase - maybe you will find someone who would agree to such an arrangement if it pleases youflowerforyou

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Fri 12/23/11 06:54 PM

my sex drive has not decreased hardly at all since my twenties except there are less double O's

What I can't understand is that even when all a girl has to do is show up, older women still don't seem nearly as interested in sex.


well if an older woman is not interested and the younger ones are jsut "showing up"

???

methinks I may have a tutoring joblaugh drool pitchfork winking waving

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Fri 12/23/11 06:57 PM


my sex drive has not decreased hardly at all since my twenties except there are less double O's

What I can't understand is that even when all a girl has to do is show up, older women still don't seem nearly as interested in sex.


My sex experience is that some guys still don't have a clue what to do in bed. Three that stand out in my mind were all in their 50s and I swear they had the knowledge of a 19 year old. The other factor age and not to be to graphic but more guys should be using Viagra. Guys I don't mean this in a nasty way as age does affect our sex drives as we get older. We may not like to admit it but it does. I know friends of mine in their 50s that are married and the couples have both lost their sex drive and then people in their 60s that have a great sex drive. Funny how each of our bodies react to age and I will add stress. If one is stressed all the time; your stress level will certainly drop and that is normal.


I agree - and some of that has to do with how men in that age group (now 40-60) were raised

a lot have been lead to believe that women "just want to get it over with" and that they are "defiling" a tender flower when they have sex - get over it

tender flower my azz - it's time to get sexy:banana:

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Fri 12/23/11 07:25 PM



my sex drive has not decreased hardly at all since my twenties except there are less double O's

What I can't understand is that even when all a girl has to do is show up, older women still don't seem nearly as interested in sex.


My sex experience is that some guys still don't have a clue what to do in bed. Three that stand out in my mind were all in their 50s and I swear they had the knowledge of a 19 year old. The other factor age and not to be to graphic but more guys should be using Viagra. Guys I don't mean this in a nasty way as age does affect our sex drives as we get older. We may not like to admit it but it does. I know friends of mine in their 50s that are married and the couples have both lost their sex drive and then people in their 60s that have a great sex drive. Funny how each of our bodies react to age and I will add stress. If one is stressed all the time; your stress level will certainly drop and that is normal.


I agree - and some of that has to do with how men in that age group (now 40-60) were raised

a lot have been lead to believe that women "just want to get it over with" and that they are "defiling" a tender flower when they have sex - get over it

tender flower my azz - it's time to get sexy:banana:


Agreed. Me, I like to spice it up in the bedroom and make it fun. :thumbsup:

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Fri 12/23/11 07:32 PM




my sex drive has not decreased hardly at all since my twenties except there are less double O's

What I can't understand is that even when all a girl has to do is show up, older women still don't seem nearly as interested in sex.


My sex experience is that some guys still don't have a clue what to do in bed. Three that stand out in my mind were all in their 50s and I swear they had the knowledge of a 19 year old. The other factor age and not to be to graphic but more guys should be using Viagra. Guys I don't mean this in a nasty way as age does affect our sex drives as we get older. We may not like to admit it but it does. I know friends of mine in their 50s that are married and the couples have both lost their sex drive and then people in their 60s that have a great sex drive. Funny how each of our bodies react to age and I will add stress. If one is stressed all the time; your stress level will certainly drop and that is normal.


I agree - and some of that has to do with how men in that age group (now 40-60) were raised

a lot have been lead to believe that women "just want to get it over with" and that they are "defiling" a tender flower when they have sex - get over it

tender flower my azz - it's time to get sexy:banana:


Agreed. Me, I like to spice it up in the bedroom and make it fun. :thumbsup:


same and the other thing - as was mentioned earlier- is health and fitness - it's hard to BE sexy if a person doesn;t FEEL sexy

and it can be hard to feel sexy as one ages if they have let their health and appearance slide....just my thought - that may not be universally true but I think it's a factor

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Fri 12/23/11 10:49 PM





my sex drive has not decreased hardly at all since my twenties except there are less double O's

What I can't understand is that even when all a girl has to do is show up, older women still don't seem nearly as interested in sex.


My sex experience is that some guys still don't have a clue what to do in bed. Three that stand out in my mind were all in their 50s and I swear they had the knowledge of a 19 year old. The other factor age and not to be to graphic but more guys should be using Viagra. Guys I don't mean this in a nasty way as age does affect our sex drives as we get older. We may not like to admit it but it does. I know friends of mine in their 50s that are married and the couples have both lost their sex drive and then people in their 60s that have a great sex drive. Funny how each of our bodies react to age and I will add stress. If one is stressed all the time; your stress level will certainly drop and that is normal.


I agree - and some of that has to do with how men in that age group (now 40-60) were raised

a lot have been lead to believe that women "just want to get it over with" and that they are "defiling" a tender flower when they have sex - get over it

tender flower my azz - it's time to get sexy:banana:


Agreed. Me, I like to spice it up in the bedroom and make it fun. :thumbsup:


same and the other thing - as was mentioned earlier- is health and fitness - it's hard to BE sexy if a person doesn;t FEEL sexy

and it can be hard to feel sexy as one ages if they have let their health and appearance slide....just my thought - that may not be universally true but I think it's a factor


I think its a hugh factor if you don't feel sexy. I had never felt sexy as men always made me feel unattractive. My best friend is always telling me that I should feel good about myself and feel sexy. Its not easy when men my age want a younger woman because they feel she is prettier and sexier than you. It certainly doesn't help one's esteem; however that has just been my personal experience.

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Sat 12/24/11 01:46 PM
Men are catching up.

American men now live just five years less, on average, than women, closing a gap that once approached eight years. Male life expectancy hit a record 75.2 in 2004, the federal Centers for Disease Control and Prevention recently announced.

http://www.usatoday.com/news/health/yourhealth/2006-06-11-male-lifespan_x.htm

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Sun 12/25/11 03:38 PM


In general, women live 10 or even 20 years longer than men.

Older women know what they want you don't have to guess.

They are more experienced, and better cooks.

Got any more reasons?

Post them here.


I didnt think you liked doing things like cooking and the bigist reason women live 20 years longer is because they poison there hubys leaving them enough money after words to last about 20 years lol.