sitting here minding my own bisiness i gat an IM the guy says he like my profile and woul I hat . bored so say sure.. we chat a bit and then i took a betterlok at his pic.. OMG !!! i was engaged to him when I was 18!!for 3 years .. didnt roconize the silver hair.. he was as shocked as I was.. asked me out tonight ... my reply was for real ? you already riped my heart up dont wanna go a second round thanks but nice catching up !!byby
too odd

heh...i'd meet him. eighteen was a long time ago...maybe he's grown up and the spark's still there.

wow was that weird or wot , iwould say no too

maybe that child is finally gone and he has matured...listen to what lulu said.

Wow stanne thats kinda weird, i would have said no also

maybe lulu is right

run if he did it once he will do it again!

i've heard stories over the years about him he definatley is still a wheeler dealer cad..all the flags are waving here RUN STANNE RUN!!!!

amerken, are you saying you are the same man now that you were when you were eighteen?

i rather hope not...for me, anyway. i'm a COMPLETELY different person, now...

i'll add, though...that my turn-ons haven't changed all that much. the same guys that got me going at eighteen...STILL do.

I tend to agree with the ones that said..Maybe you should give him the benefit of the doubt...It is amazing what a few years can do , as far as growing up ......

lulu how do you know what i'm like, and the answer is yes

i have no clue what you are like, and made no claim to.

part of life is...growing with each experience. if you truly are the same person...then you have NOT been growing. change is normal...stagnation is not.

i'm not saying that one's boundaries, morals, and such must change...but surely your knowledge level has increased? surely each mistake made has had some sort of impact?

when i said, "i rather hope not..." that was in reference to myself, and NOT to you. i thought i qualified that with "for me, anyway."

i'm not upset but as far as my morals and respect towards others i'm the same person, and i'm sure i've matured a little over the years...

Damn that sucks.

Sorry to hear that.

I don't know what I'd do. I know that people do change through the years. Just do what your heart tells you to do!

That is sooooo weird..cool though....

Interesting, only now that friggin "Its a small world after all" is stuck in my head. Yey, rescued by the beetles - They say let it be if that helps and duck! y'all that gravel that's gettin' kicked up from her flying feet can hurt......

that is just too crazy wow, if only i was that lucky.

Stanne,

That is too funny!!!! LMAO LMAO

Here is my advise.......
Listen to your instinct. If they tell to run, then RUN STANNE RUN!!!! If they are awfully quiet, then I recommend giving him a second chance, but only if you are truly willing.

The basis for my advise is that it isn't so much about him as it is about YOU.

Take Care,
Alexia.