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Topic: Do you think the worst?
oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Thu 12/15/11 12:27 PM
I was just wondering because I was talking of going to Phillipines. Someone said dont' be a sex tourist. How about you? Do you think the worst about what soomeone writes/says? Why, when you don't know them?

sassynsweet4eva Joined Fri 12/02/11 Posts: 2	Thu 12/15/11 01:17 PM
I do,but then i think ,it's my life that i only get to live once,id be careful,but i'd still live MY life for me :-)....Have fun no matter what u decide!!

SilentlyScreaming Joined Mon 09/10/07 Posts: 10681	Thu 12/15/11 01:25 PM
yeah... ESPECIALLY of people i dont know... i'm one of the people that pretty much assume the whole world is against me until they prove otherwise...

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Thu 12/15/11 01:31 PM
No. It doesn't really bother me if i don't know them. I have better things to worry about than some stranger.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 12/15/11 01:44 PM
You can get sex in the Phillipines??

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Thu 12/15/11 02:18 PM
yeah... ESPECIALLY of people i dont know... i'm one of the people that pretty much assume the whole world is against me until they prove otherwise... This!

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 12/15/11 04:33 PM Edited by singmesweet on Thu 12/15/11 04:34 PM
For the most part, no. It really depends on what someone is saying, though.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 12/15/11 04:39 PM
Noop. I like people who do stuff I wouldnt a thought a doin. I think someone was havin a laff about the sex tourist thing. Yeah, it does sound like it would be a joke.

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Thu 12/15/11 04:44 PM
Actually, I tend to find the good in people.

teadipper Joined Wed 10/19/11 Posts: 2732	Thu 12/15/11 04:53 PM
I had an ex boyfriend who had girl online pretend to be all in love with him and she was there. He went and married her. She totally used him. I am not saying all the women there are that way. That is like saying all blondes are dingy and all brunettes are smarter. It's too broad of a generalization. But that is a hell hole of a country in some parts to be a woman from what I am told and some of them want out very badly. Some of them with very good intentions of being a good wife and others not.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 12/15/11 04:54 PM
Even the 'nice guy' from the nice guy thread, I will assume he's just havin a shite day. ....until he responds badly if someone reminds him 'we is all individual people'. I don't assume the worst if I barely know someone, or have only seen a few of their posts here. But, if they post the same whiny stuff over and over, I will assume they're whiny and miserable.

Tulareman Joined Thu 08/25/11 Posts: 487	Fri 12/16/11 12:24 AM
I had an ex boyfriend who had girl online pretend to be all in love with him and she was there. He went and married her. She totally used him. I am not saying all the women there are that way. That is like saying all blondes are dingy and all brunettes are smarter. It's too broad of a generalization. But that is a hell hole of a country in some parts to be a woman from what I am told and some of them want out very badly. Some of them with very good intentions of being a good wife and others not. While I was in the service, I spent 4 months in the Phillipines. I was treated really good by the woman I got to know there. If ever given the chance. I would date a woman from there. But. She would have to come to me.

plastic_pancakes Joined Sun 10/18/09 Posts: 7399	Fri 12/16/11 01:05 AM
Haha. I'm so confused at this point as to what we're supposed to be talking about. Sex? The Philippines? The worst? The worst sex I've had in the Philippines? I try to limit my expectations as much as possible. As was stated by singmesweet, sometimes people have very noticeable trends. Generally though I use my experience and give people the benefit of the doubt. The whole world isn't against anybody. Most of the world just doesn't care about you. It's a rather relieving feeling to me.