Oh and I forgot to add that it isnt just men doing this to women.... there is also a female "ring" doing this to men too.

thank you...lily that was very helpful... yes i know... guess where he is nigria... wow... not surprised... thank you so much... this info was very helpful... thank God i didn't send him anything... relief... thank you to everyone... hav blocked him... and he wouldn't get much out of my banking account anyways..

trueokie i am a member at another friends site. One of my man friends i met there and talked with for well over a year & 1/2 told me one day he had a card in the mail sent off to me. Money had never been discussed in all this time and when the card came to me at the post office I was sitting in my vehicle and opened that envelope. He indeed sent a lovely card and enclosed well over 100.00 with a note telling me how hard i work with my autistic child, go without for him, and it was high time i went to the beauty shop and had my hair and nails done. I sat there and cried for a long time because this was someone who really cared about me. Someone out there really DID care! That was simply the kindest act any stranger has ever done so i went to the hair dresser, got the hair and nails done and then took new photos for him to see at the site. Not everyone is bad online. I just wanted to share this with you.