Topic: This place rocks but?.
skywisper's photo
Tue 11/29/11 05:49 PM


I do not bother with any of it. I am 100% forum friends. I do not go exploring that way on profiles. As you notice... I have not made a "ME" profile. If you want to know me... I am here in the forums. I turned off my IM... and rarely explore a random nudge. If someone can not make a real effort.. I am not interested.


couldn't have said it better myself!
Well i agree with both of you but i didnt know then what i know now i wont even go to the other part of the site now.

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 11/29/11 06:25 PM


Guys email me and tell me I look like a big rag doll. ohwell
Please forgive me for saying this Ruth but hmmm you do kind of look like a rag doll.Tell us the truth Ruth thats not really you setting there is it? hmmmmmmm.


Yes it is.

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 11/29/11 06:27 PM

Ruth looks like the bassist from the Go-Go's.....Yowzaaaaa



A daily dose of Krupa is just what a girl's ego needs. smooched

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Tue 11/29/11 06:33 PM

This place rocks i almost left the site until i came here to Forums & found you guys.I think both women and men alike are very playful funny,polite & good to one another.So why is it not like this on the dating site its self ? the people ther are not very friendly at all.I think i can be a ptetty funny guy on a clear day lol i joke and play around with women there all the time and never get a return hi go to hell or nothing yet a lote of the profile say make me laugh & i'm yours.Hey i'm glad i found you guys God bless and take care.Martin


I tend to agree - I seldom talk to anyone on the site that is not from the forums -I think it's easier because you get to know people in the context of a conversation - it's hard to joke with someone based on a single email not knowing much really about how they interact

PacificStar48's photo
Tue 11/29/11 06:43 PM
Forum friends are great but the local mutual match is a bit tougher. Good photos and well written profile is critical if you want to date locally from on line.

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Tue 11/29/11 06:49 PM

I do not bother with any of it. I am 100% forum friends. I do not go exploring that way on profiles. As you notice... I have not made a "ME" profile. If you want to know me... I am here in the forums. I turned off my IM... and rarely explore a random nudge. If someone can not make a real effort.. I am not interested.


Only real efforts are made in the forums? While you can get an idea of what someone is like in the forums, you can't get to know that person well without getting to know them outside of the forums. There are many people here I recognize from chatting in the forums, but if we haven't communicated at all outside of the forums, I wouldn't say I know them, or that they know me.

SilentlyScreaming's photo
Tue 11/29/11 06:54 PM
it sounded to me like she meant the nudges when she was talking about effort...

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Wed 11/30/11 06:27 AM

I perused you guys' profiles.

skywisper, yours reads very..jaded.
Hollers 'baggage.'
You could leave out the negative and be
more positive, it might be a bigger draw.

bunnypower236, yours is a small pool
of prospects on here.

For you both, time spent in the forums
keeps you not only at the top of the Search
engines, but you can keep a close eye on
new people, and their posts.

Be on scene when 'the one' walks
through the door.





what's wrong with being jaded? As we enter our 40s, 50s+ we count on jaded to makes us look wise and mysteriouslaugh

skywisper's photo
Wed 11/30/11 02:59 PM


I perused you guys' profiles.

skywisper, yours reads very..jaded.
Hollers 'baggage.'
You could leave out the negative and be
more positive, it might be a bigger draw.

bunnypower236, yours is a small pool
of prospects on here.

For you both, time spent in the forums
keeps you not only at the top of the Search
engines, but you can keep a close eye on
new people, and their posts.

Be on scene when 'the one' walks
through the door.





what's wrong with being jaded? As we enter our 40s, 50s+ we count on jaded to makes us look wise and mysteriouslaugh
Wise and mysterious yes thats me all right wise and mysteriousglasses lol.

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Wed 11/30/11 06:04 PM



I perused you guys' profiles.

skywisper, yours reads very..jaded.
Hollers 'baggage.'
You could leave out the negative and be
more positive, it might be a bigger draw.

bunnypower236, yours is a small pool
of prospects on here.

For you both, time spent in the forums
keeps you not only at the top of the Search
engines, but you can keep a close eye on
new people, and their posts.

Be on scene when 'the one' walks
through the door.





what's wrong with being jaded? As we enter our 40s, 50s+ we count on jaded to makes us look wise and mysteriouslaugh
Wise and mysterious yes thats me all right wise and mysteriousglasses lol.


well then that's 2 of uswaving

parttime_vikingfan's photo
Wed 11/30/11 06:28 PM
If you cannot be found what good is it to search for you?

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Wed 11/30/11 06:40 PM
the journey not the destination

parttime_vikingfan's photo
Wed 11/30/11 06:43 PM
riddle me this!

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Wed 11/30/11 06:48 PM
flowerforyou ok

who is the better man?

the warrior or the healer?

skywisper's photo
Wed 11/30/11 06:56 PM

flowerforyou ok

who is the better man?

the warrior or the healer?
Id have to say the Healer myself.

parttime_vikingfan's photo
Wed 11/30/11 06:57 PM
am thinking

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 11/30/11 06:58 PM

flowerforyou ok

who is the better man?

the warrior or the healer?


Both are necessary. Life is about balance and the warrior and the healer are both a part of that balance.

skywisper's photo
Wed 11/30/11 06:58 PM




I perused you guys' profiles.

skywisper, yours reads very..jaded.
Hollers 'baggage.'
You could leave out the negative and be
more positive, it might be a bigger draw.

bunnypower236, yours is a small pool
of prospects on here.

For you both, time spent in the forums
keeps you not only at the top of the Search
engines, but you can keep a close eye on
new people, and their posts.

Be on scene when 'the one' walks
through the door.





what's wrong with being jaded? As we enter our 40s, 50s+ we count on jaded to makes us look wise and mysteriouslaugh
Wise and mysterious yes thats me all right wise and mysteriousglasses lol.


well then that's 2 of uswaving
Hmmmm glasses very interesting.

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Wed 11/30/11 06:59 PM

am thinking


by this time of day that is an accomplishment itself {{{hugs PTvikingfan}}}flowerforyou

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Wed 11/30/11 07:00 PM


flowerforyou ok

who is the better man?

the warrior or the healer?
Id have to say the Healer myself.


hmmmm interesting

I think you'd be mad at them all by nowwhat