Alright I am confused beyond belief. This guy asked me to be his GF on the fourth of July. I said yes. Well today he was at his mothers and he told her we werent dating. So naturally his mother and I asked what was going on. He said that I was his friend and he loved me like a sister. I dont understand why if he didnt want to date me why he didnt say anything when I introduced him as my bf? And the way he was talking and acting we seemed to be dating. Am I in the right by feeling hurt?

Hmm, he sounds like he is confused more than you are. I say you have a reason to feel hurt but I think I would be more pissed at him than hurt. Sounds like maybe he just doesnt know what he wants.

I get that. But it feels like he was playing with my emotions. But hey what can ya do bout it? Ill be alright, who knows maybe ill find the person im ment to be with on here.

he is more confused then you are stephy

He doesn't know what he wants. Go out and have a good time while he figures it out. Meet some great guys on here in the meantime. At your age, guys are a dime a dozen!

DAMN!.

That is messed up and rather confusing. Maybe he changed his mind, then again maybe he isn't sure what he wants.

But I wouldn't ask somebody to be my girl friend and then change my mind after introducing my self that is to the family or my or her's etc.

Sorry to hear that Stepycats. You'll find somebody though.

Bottom line.... You dont need a guy like that when there are more than enough real men out there who wont jerk you around. You will be ok and its not your fault he was a loser lol

I sure hope so! But thanks for all the advice and comments your all on JSH are the best friends a gal could have!

Stephycats, everyone has already given excellent advice already. The only thing I would add is run. Run as fast as you can. This guy obviously does not deserve you. If you stay with him, he will only bring you down. So, run like hell. :) :) :)

Good Luck :) :) :)

He really doesnt sound very considerate or mature...I mean shouldn't you have been the first one to know how he felt and that you were no longer his g/f??????????????

Sounds like high-school stuff...You deserve much better!!!!!!!