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Topic: A personal story....
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Sat 11/26/11 08:07 PM
Your'e only 20! You are temporarily fixated on this girl. That is like being hypnotized. You are very nice looking and have your whole future.

Get unfixated.

Don't be a door mat. Girls don't like door mats.


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Sun 11/27/11 02:49 AM

Your'e only 20! You are temporarily fixated on this girl. That is like being hypnotized. You are very nice looking and have your whole future.

Get unfixated.

Don't be a door mat. Girls don't like door mats.




i knw.... i hv found nobody else rcntly. so i joind mingle!
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still hopin 4 d bst!!

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Sun 11/27/11 03:46 AM


Cold turkey.

No friendship with her.

No contact.

Do not call, or accept her call.

You will have a hard time moving on if you take baby steps.

Get out and find new things to think about. Get out and find anything to occupy yourself. Dont stick to routine. The old routine allowed you time for thoughts of her. Do new things.



I will lose her forever if i do that, dude!! :(

Well, yeah. perhaps you are right. i must make this happen, even if i don't want to....

Earlier i tried to, but i couldn't. she use to share each and everything with me...whnevr she had a hard time. but all she thinks me as hr frnd and nt a single step beyond tht.. :/
i fl sory 4 her (her mom left her when she was just 12.) and nobody's to look after the famly.. (her fathr seems too careless to look after the fam) maybe, this might be one other reason for her "f**k whoever else aftr me" attitude!
But thanks, klc. i guess that's the only way out. though i havn't thot bwt it to tht much tht it spoils my creer or my personal lyf; i think i should do it b4 it takes a serious turn!!
Have a great tym ahead, dude! thnk you.... :)


Okay from two points of view - I was that girl. My guy best friend, Rob, would have followed me to the moon and back and I didn't know it and by the time we ended up together things were so awkward and weird it lasted two seconds and I lost my best friend. He carried around a lot of pain from the jerks I had gone out with instead of him.

Other point of view (not Rob) - My good friend, Jason, was you. The girl assumed he'd always be there to fall back on. He never got her. He was always there for her. She married an azz.

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Sun 11/27/11 03:50 AM


Cold turkey.

No friendship with her.

No contact.

Do not call, or accept her call.

You will have a hard time moving on if you take baby steps.

Get out and find new things to think about. Get out and find anything to occupy yourself. Dont stick to routine. The old routine allowed you time for thoughts of her. Do new things.



I will lose her forever if i do that, dude!! :(



uh, what makes you think you ever had her? the only thing you have to loose is an unhealthy obsession.

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Sun 11/27/11 08:24 AM
@bogie:i got it nw....
@tea: well, it wasn't "his" fault....btw, i got u; i'll try to move out!

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