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if they write you telling you they are humble? First thing I think when a guy approaches me saying "I am a humble man" is NOT. I don't know why. It just goes like that in my head that if you were truly a humble person, you would not be announcing you were humble. Anyone else's thoughts? That's quite negative thinking. If that poor fellow is wishing to highlight his humbleness that way then it shall be ok for u normally.May be he is more comfortable by introducing himself that way.  What he claimed for is true or not is obviously detectable by further interaction. I think one shall take this as " Okay,this fellow at least seems to know the importance of being humble" though he may not be  . If a man or woman were truly humble; they wouldn't mention it as that is not the behaviour of a humble person. I completely agree. Then again, I also think telling someone you're nice does not automatically make you nice. Or telling someone you're sexy does not necessarily make you sexy. These are all things that other people need to find out about you on their own. Telling them won't make it so. |
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Personally, I am a very humble man. That is one of the best things about me. I am also very intelligent, handsome, strong and usually the smartest person in the room. But mostly I'm Humble.  Now paul has presented a very good controversial example. Normally It's a good joke & usually anyone won't introduce himself in that way. I think it is all about circumstances,common sense,the time which you are willing to spend for introducing yourself to someone. Normally anyone will introduce himself as " humble" only if he/she hasn't anyway interacted with the person ever before & if he/she is in a hurry to introduce & in extreme case may be for CLARIFICATION about some incidence. Usually politeness,intelligence,humbleness & all kind of mannerism & personal characteristics reflects automatically through behavior & communication. Of cource it depends much on general intelligence of BOTH,if one is DUMB / ARROGANT enough to know the importance of those then none of your good characteristics will count. All living beings usually have various characteristics which they use as per their intelligence under various circumstances,that's natural. I mean to say if anyone is introducing himself as HUMBLE & POLITE then I shall take it as 1) It is my HONOR that this person knows those gentle characteristics are important for me. 2) It is obvious that he/she is considering myself too as HUMBLE. 3) It is good,this person know at least importance of this characteristic. 4) It is not too bad to at least start conversation with this fellow.Whatever he claims will not take more than few conversations to verify. Introducing about own's looks etc. is I THINK very bad mannerism (it is as bad as insulting others)but as way of communication have drastically changed,the concepts about mannerism are also changed. When u r communicating from a distance w/o seeing each other then one need to introduce himself in that way sometimes. |
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if they write you telling you they are humble? First thing I think when a guy approaches me saying "I am a humble man" is NOT. I don't know why. It just goes like that in my head that if you were truly a humble person, you would not be announcing you were humble. Anyone else's thoughts? |
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