Pepper your post suck. What a brain you have there?

I disagree with anyone who lives has a "wild" past. That's just not true. You made that statement as if you know EVERY SINGLE person on the planet.

The girl said "bad" is subjective and might depend on the person's views.

Daleray you make a powerful point. "The past is the past unless it is present."

Some things pop up in the present again that are from the past. We're human and have our own comfort zones.

Personally, if a guy had a wild sex past on a daily basis..that's a NO for me.

Would never accept in my life anyone who has done harm to a child, or killed someone.........

I don't consider the divorced with kids a wild past but some might. Divorce is so common, I don't think it's wild to me. My folks were divorced sigh

that,s to bad, because most guys have sex with 4 different girls
on a daily basis, boredchick!

I definitely would not go out with a child molester...that is just common sense for a woman with children to make...I dont care if he has done his time or whatevers...thats just not a path I would cross...

When you pull statistics back it up with a source. Otherwise I'll just ignore that statement.

If its in the past why do I have to deal with it? Unless something from the past is still with them, then I would like to help them with it. But you would have to trust me to know about it.

Pepper you also don't thoroughly understand what I meant by that statement. I meant more if random females daily are involved. That's just nasty.

I'm sorry pepper I think you are both naive, and have a VERY narrow veiw on what the world is really like. I have to say I feel most of what I've seen you say is pure drivel

boredchick, why would you say that!

I agree with you boredchick..with all the diseases out there..why would someone wanna risk their health???

bahah I just forgot I saw the "four different girls" part.

Pull out the sources when you state numbers man. Anyone can use a number.

Regardless how common it might be today, I wouldn't bother with a guy who was that active. All the STD's, HIV out there

Hawaiigurl you read my mind

Thank you

I JUST posted the same answer after you.

Someone was a male whore eh?

Think pepper is like a big wooden spoon.
Likes to stir things up.
Just to set what surfaces

Oldsage

Will you adopt me? You're so funny.

my past hasn't stop--it's still around--

Bored you are like another daughter to me.......I am so proud of you..........your intelligent, sensitive, and caring.......you overcome struggles with a great strength.......I am honored to know you on here, and look forward to the name when I can meet you in person, and teach you how to make your own chocolate candy.......

I am honored with having you in my life......I'm the lucky one

People do change....I've had girlfriends who had very rough pasts, and I never held it against them. Often, it helped a great deal to understand the influence their pasts had on them -- we are all products of our own personal histories, to some extent, and those histories are not something we can just throw off.

I have had something of a bizarre and undisciplined past myself, and I would hope people wouldn't hold that against me....

I think you have to allow for the possibility of growth and change and personal awareness and improvement.

"The path of excess leads to the tower of wisdom" -- William Blake