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KC0003, You know I adore you from afar but let the beating commence. A lovely thought though factless, abstract and politically correct, still has the power to touch someone or make them see themselves differently for a day is worth the post. Someone (Willing2) saw wisdom, truth, kindness, something that touched him and he felt like sharing, hoping to touch someone else. That alone was worth the effort. Now I am craving sushi. 
i get it the effort....i just dont get "it". if you are fine with being you, you shouldnt have to see yourself differenty, for a day or otherwise. I don't really see it as them seeing themselves differently. But, perhaps it made someone feel really good after reading it. I'd say that's a good thing. |
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(yeah i know i'll get beat up for this...but) if you are comfortable being you, you don’t need ridicules comparisons such as the one the op has posted. our society denigrates many people for many reasons, but really, do you have to rely on fact less, abstract, attempted political correctness to feel better about it? there are plenty of people who don’t care if someone is too skinny or too fat. (i used the word fat because it is used in the op) everyone has preferences, and guess what? you cannot meet all of them. p.s. the person who wrote this knows very little about whales and should probably never try to write a ‘self-help’ book. (self-help, being an oxy-moron) If it made someone feel good reading it, why put them down for it? If you didn't like it, no worries, it wasn't geared toward you. I think we're all aware that everyone has preferences and none of us will fit into everyone's preferences. where did i put anyone down? Well, you are giving people a hard time for liking something like that. Really, though, why worry about it? How does it affect you if someone enjoyed reading it? what I did was give an opinion, after all, isn’t that what we do here? are you not giving me a hard time simply because I don’t recommend looking to things like this to feel better about one’s self? |
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He told me there was no film in the camera. LOL
Actually thanks a lot. Gives a nice perspective and I think that is half the battle in how we think about ourselves and others. |
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But...but....some women are actually crappy parents who can't sing and got no seals or dolphins frollicking around them....
Are we supposed to honor them too? Just curious |
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what I did was give an opinion, after all, isn’t that what we do here? are you not giving me a hard time simply because I don’t recommend looking to things like this to feel better about one’s self? And I was giving my opinion on your opinion. 
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It is a lovely post. On days when I wish I was a mermaid, I will be happy I'm a whale. Thanks Willing.
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Edited by
kc0003
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Thu 10/13/11 04:57 PM
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And I was giving my opinion on your opinion.
If it made someone feel good reading it, why put them down for it? If you didn't like it, no worries, it wasn't geared toward you. I think we're all aware that everyone has preferences and none of us will fit into everyone's preferences. Well, you are giving people a hard time for liking something like that. Really, though, why worry about it? How does it affect you if someone enjoyed reading it? technically, these are statements and questions...no? |
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You're going to argue about this? Really? No thanks.
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wow....where do you see an argument here?
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Im glad that was posted, I think its cool that model did that especially nude.
We can pretend that we are all PC here but the fact is we arent. Plus women get shoved aside a lot. Thin women get made fun of and are often labeled as mentally ill. You have to wonder what matters to people anymore. The only thing left is the personality. There are people with some pretty ugly faces, thin or big. I tend to like someone with a nice smile and a good face over their body size. They must also possess good manners and a good personality |
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Edited by
navygirl
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Thu 10/13/11 05:22 PM
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Just saying that being large doesn't equate to being unattractive. I wish I could believe that but just about every man I ever met made me feel unattrative because of my weight. Made me feel like I was just a whale. I still struggle with eating and eat very little these days. 
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So stop dating guys who don't think your attractive Navy. Pretty basic stuff.
"Eating very little" may not be the best option. I eat all the time but, it is three bites here, another few bites there. I never eat to get full. 10a.m.-noon-3 p.m. I have meaty and vegetabaly snacks. Then I put on my headphones and dance my retarded butt off at work. I get monsterous energy. Don't starve the machine. |
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So stop dating guys who don't think your attractive Navy. Pretty basic stuff. "Eating very little" may not be the best option. I eat all the time but, it is three bites here, another few bites there. I never eat to get full. 10a.m.-noon-3 p.m. I have meaty and vegetabaly snacks. Then I put on my headphones and dance my retarded butt off at work. I get monsterous energy. Don't starve the machine. This is why I stopped dating; they were all doing that too me. At my age; I can certainly afford to eat less anyways but I eat a high veggie diet and very little meat. I also drink protein drinks for my weight lifting. |
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High veggie has it's benefits...but it is a very low energy.
I accidentally had an all veggie lunch last week and my energy dropped horribly. Veggies serve thier purpose but without all the rest of the crap your body needs...they are just one small part of it. |
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High veggie has it's benefits...but it is a very low energy. I accidentally had an all veggie lunch last week and my energy dropped horribly. Veggies serve thier purpose but without all the rest of the crap your body needs...they are just one small part of it. This is true; this is why I drink protein drinks. |
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A cheese burger with all the veggies and no sauce is alot cheaper and works better.
Just my opinion...I got no scientific evidence to back up that claim.... But, I promise..it works. Eat, smoke, drink....in moderation....but, more importantly....dance through your life. I never read an article that said enjoying your life was unhealthy. 
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Just saying that being large doesn't equate to being unattractive. I wish I could believe that but just about every man I ever met made me feel unattrative because of my weight. Made me feel like I was just a whale. I still struggle with eating and eat very little these days.
I'm definitely not a skinny girl, but I've absolutely felt attractive around men. So, I do believe that. I hope others can learn to believe that as well. |
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I want you to honor me Krupalicious. On you knee's biotch.
 
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A cheese burger with all the veggies and no sauce is alot cheaper and works better. Just my opinion...I got no scientific evidence to back up that claim.... But, I promise..it works. Eat, smoke, drink....in moderation....but, more importantly....dance through your life. I never read an article that said enjoying your life was unhealthy. Well, I hardly drink anymore, never smoked, and watch everything I eat. As for scientific evidence; that would be hard to prove what works as every person's body reacts differently to foods. For example; chocolate, french fries, pizza,chinese food, and deep fried foods make me violently ill. I stay away from fast foods and junk food as they just don't agree with me. Not quite a vegetarian as I do enjoy my boiled skinless chicken, and of course baked/broiled fish. I agree that it is not unhealthy to enjoy your life but as you said in moderation. |
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Just saying that being large doesn't equate to being unattractive. I wish I could believe that but just about every man I ever met made me feel unattrative because of my weight. Made me feel like I was just a whale. I still struggle with eating and eat very little these days.
I'm definitely not a skinny girl, but I've absolutely felt attractive around men. So, I do believe that. I hope others can learn to believe that as well. I think its hard to believe when men constantly put you down for your weight. In a perfect world, yes you would be accepted for who you are and weight shouldn't be a factor. However; we live in anything but a perfect world. Where I am living now; men prefer extremely skinny gals when it comes to dating; however I have noticed that once married; these gals don't stay skinny as there are lots of curvy women here. |
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