I am fed up of men hitting on me.........

Its a misc0ncepti0n n a big myth bbe

That's for me to decide. Every second email in my inbox says, "i wanna satisfy you".

Tell them that you are already satisfied. Ask them to send their sizes, have fun. Tease them. Rape them :P

why not make it clear about your wish/needs. its help you to reduce the mail.

You know the sad thing is that, this "sexual desperation" is an attribute that is becoming the generalized attribute of all indian internet users thanks to these idiots.

But I bet you'arer de-sensitised to all these "i wanna satisy you or (insert retarded sexual intention here)" by now right?

It also makes other non-desperate males such as myself become veeeeeeeeeeeeeery concious of what we say. I always double check a message that I'm writing to a girl thinking "she won't think that I'm a creep right?"...

@ infinidev - You're right, Its sad and i'm missing out of the good people u genuinely like flirting & mingling around.

Hi,

Its a strong mindset that the dating sites are meant for satisfying sexual needs...can be frnds also and if well set can move ahead...!!!

its a matter of beauty, so if you are pretty you should show it

my contention here is... the majority of guys on this (and other similar websites) are out here looking for sex.. simple reason is that indian women arent generally into the one-night-stand scene but the ones that ARE, come here at least once in their lives.. so its a good place to start if ur loking for sex without strings attached.. Then theres the minority who are here for dating aka people-who-cant-talk-to-girls-in-the-real-world and of course those who are just looking for friends aka people-who-cant-talk-to-anyone-in-the-real-world... For those minorities heres a simple word of advice: the odds of u finding real love or a real friend sitting on ur *** in front of a computer are slimmer than an anorexic model!! go out! meet people! im not sating it doesnt happen, just that its prety damn rare!

But i digress...coming back to miss Alpana's matter.. ur a woman, woman.. get used to men hitting on u here AND in the real world! Im just surprised this is the first time being hit on has pissed u off!! Ur not the first woman whos complained about it and u wont be the last..As far as the I wanna satisfy u messages go, ignore them! Thats exactly what u do when a guy is mind-****ing u in the real world.. now that guy has a cloud of anonymity to hide in and hes gonna make damn well use of it.. aint nothing u can do about it.. quit cribbing and look out for the genuine ones ( and if u manage to find some, let me know too, if only to reaffirm my faith in dating sites) !

P.S.: Before you ask, im here for the sex!

And serious advice from someone who knows:
1. You've got one damned photo of urs up there, people arent hitting on u because of that #vanity, hello!
2. Its the 'Hello boys' that uve put up thats inviting the horde.. change that if u really want a break...

I'm used to men hitting on me dragon, wasn't the first time and will certainly not be the last time. But sometimes u get fed up. Ain't cribbing, just was a little pissed off.
I hope those men find some sanity soon.
Look at the india forum, 'i need classy women', 'i need a south indian gal', 'gal in guwahati'... come on, get a life...do they really think they'll get someone like that. Is it that convenient.

Anyways, who am i to judge...

Itz well said alpana madam.... But all these are natural processes.... ;)
no one can ignore them if they are suffering from it...:-)

its really difficult to find girls here or anywhere to reply i feel all girls are pretty smart and intelligent its just what they are interested in ?

Being Preety is a crime...there is two ways to think over it...either you ignore the person you don't like...Second is your courage to chat a person to convince that you are not like that....get change Or change them for a healthy talk....

ONLY one solution....F*** off.

being pretty is no crime but being judgmental is for sure.. we all don a gown of being so different from the rest all. what we see is always a right angle, at the same time the person standing opposite and looking at us.. from his side the angle is a right angle.. its all abt looking and understanding the other persons prospective without being judgmental..same applies to u and same goes for the wannabe seekers.... rest what ever they are looking or wanting is a different subject matter can be explained as well

Well all i can say is get to know someone before passing judgement on all, those one liners dont mean **** & **** happens lol. better get used to it and dont let it affect ur outlook in this life. cheer up & thank god for making you pretty Cheers!!