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Topic: friends with benefits... feelings gettin involved
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Sat 09/10/11 12:07 PM

Oh how we delude ourselves. I just need sex. No strings attached. Friends with benefits. What a crock of s!@# And I speak from experience. Allowing someone into your body is the most intimate thing you can do. Even if you think it's a one night stand, you never feel good after the euphoria of sex has worn off.

It's time to end it and you know it. Being alone really is better than being less than you are.

Good luck.



she could be codependent

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Sat 09/10/11 12:27 PM


Oh how we delude ourselves. I just need sex. No strings attached. Friends with benefits. What a crock of s!@# And I speak from experience. Allowing someone into your body is the most intimate thing you can do. Even if you think it's a one night stand, you never feel good after the euphoria of sex has worn off.

It's time to end it and you know it. Being alone really is better than being less than you are.

Good luck.



she could be codependent


True E but my advice stands. Better to be alone than less than who you are.:wink:

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Sat 09/10/11 12:32 PM
cut off all contact abruptly - lean on your friends and never look back
sorry to say that but it is an untenable situation

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Sat 09/10/11 12:45 PM
Edited by kc0003 on Sat 09/10/11 12:49 PM
first of all, this is NOT a friends with benefits relationship, no matter how you try to paint it now. you knew very well he had someone else, and yet, you made the choice to move forward into a sexual relationship. you cannot play victim when you enter things willingly.

if I were you, I would move on knowing that I learned a couple of very valuable lessons. one being that men find it much easier to separate sex and emotion. also, you have proven to yourself that you are incapable of doing so, so do yourself a favor and avoid these situations in the future.

what I find interesting here is that if you were the other woman, you would be on here talking about what a lying, cheating bastard this dude is, but here you are, hoping he will break it off with her so the two of you can give it a shot. really? this is the same guy here! I guess for some people, wants supersede morals.

my advice, stop sleeping with other people’s boyfriends. your life will be a whole lot less complicated.

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