Topic: Giving It Another Try
wxmann's photo
Thu 07/21/11 05:38 PM
Been on some other sites and not having any luck, so I was told about this one and thought I give it yet another try. Doubt it this site will do me any better. I'm finding out that hardly any women want to go out with a guy that does not drink any alcoholic beverages. That stuff makes me very down and depressed. I have more fun without it. I don't smoke, I cannot go places where the music is loud without using ear plugs. Another red flag I guess. I'm an outdoorsman. Enjoy being outside as often as possible - weather permitting. Love riding my mountain bike. Lately it's been too hot & way too humid to do anything outside. Plus the deer flies are really, really bad this year. Also like boating in small inland lakes and doing some fishing. Though most of the time I catch frogs and turtles on the line versus fish.

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Thu 07/21/11 06:07 PM
Welcome to Mingle....So many come to the sites expecting to find instant gratification..it's not going to happen..but join in the forums...post , post and post some more...that's where you're going to find someone..and many on this site do.The success stories abound.. Many of us have Mingle Meets..that's fun and you get to meet the people you've been visiting with on line.
I think you'll find Mingle is not your everyday run of the mill dating site...before you know it..you'll be part of a huge online family..enjoy yourself!flowerforyou

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Thu 07/21/11 06:12 PM

I'm finding out that hardly any women want to go out with a guy that does not drink any alcoholic beverages.


Couldn't agree with you more! I've lost so many people to alcohol over the years that I refuse to let it be any part of my life whatsoever. But trying to find someone who doesn't drink is like trying to find a giant purple sloth wearing a cowboy hat.

Here's hoping you'll have better luck....!

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Thu 07/21/11 06:44 PM
Jump in the forums and have some fun, get to know everyone. We are a big happy family here. Hope you have a blastwaving

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Thu 07/21/11 07:13 PM


I'm finding out that hardly any women want to go out with a guy that does not drink any alcoholic beverages.


Couldn't agree with you more! I've lost so many people to alcohol over the years that I refuse to let it be any part of my life whatsoever. But trying to find someone who doesn't drink is like trying to find a giant purple sloth wearing a cowboy hat.

Here's hoping you'll have better luck....!


I can't stand alcohol either. Several of my family members drinks alcohol and I don't like the way they act when they are drinking. I don't drink or smoke. I have tried alcohol but I did not like the taste.

BTW Welcome to Mingle2 wxmann.

amaraii's photo
Thu 07/21/11 07:14 PM
Hi, welcome to mingle2.

I read your profile. You are coming off real strong, maybe a little too much for the average girl. You said you fish, then you must know, that you are more likely to catch the fish if you reel it in gently. It'll be more likely that a girl might be able to see past all the quirks to the amazing guy smitten you are when they meet you than, when they are reading your profile.

Plus I'm betting that going out with you is probably one date she'll never forget.biggrin

:banana: :banana: :banana:

wux's photo
Fri 07/22/11 01:23 AM

Welcome to Mingle....So many come to the sites expecting to find instant gratification..it's not going to happen..but join in the forums...post , post and post some more...that's where you're going to find someone..and many on this site do.The success stories abound.. Many of us have Mingle Meets..that's fun and you get to meet the people you've been visiting with on line.
I think you'll find Mingle is not your everyday run of the mill dating site...before you know it..you'll be part of a huge online family..enjoy yourself!flowerforyou

I find instant gratification galore on the Internet, Vivian. You just have to know how to use these sites. (I use the pictures only. For the sake of humanity, please don't ask me to elaborate.)

wux's photo
Fri 07/22/11 01:26 AM

Been on some other sites and not having any luck, so I was told about this one and thought I give it yet another try. Doubt it this site will do me any better. I'm finding out that hardly any women want to go out with a guy that does not drink any alcoholic beverages. That stuff makes me very down and depressed. I have more fun without it. I don't smoke, I cannot go places where the music is loud without using ear plugs. Another red flag I guess. I'm an outdoorsman. Enjoy being outside as often as possible - weather permitting. Love riding my mountain bike. Lately it's been too hot & way too humid to do anything outside. Plus the deer flies are really, really bad this year. Also like boating in small inland lakes and doing some fishing. Though most of the time I catch frogs and turtles on the line versus fish.


You are right. Hardly any women will go out with a teetotaler. Also, hardly any women will go out with a drinker.

I actually find myself lucky for that. Can you magine if they did? Suess Gott im Himmel!! What would happen then?

wux's photo
Fri 07/22/11 01:28 AM

Hi, welcome to mingle2.

I read your profile. You are coming off real strong, maybe a little too much for the average girl. You said you fish, then you must know, that you are more likely to catch the fish if you reel it in gently. It'll be more likely that a girl might be able to see past all the quirks to the amazing guy smitten you are when they meet you than, when they are reading your profile.

Plus I'm betting that going out with you is probably one date she'll never forget.biggrin

:banana: :banana: :banana:


Either your advice is very good, Amalaii, or the wxmann will catch a VERY BIG girl.

I am not wxmann, by the way, please everybody don't go assuming.

vivian2981's photo
Fri 07/22/11 07:15 AM


Welcome to Mingle....So many come to the sites expecting to find instant gratification..it's not going to happen..but join in the forums...post , post and post some more...that's where you're going to find someone..and many on this site do.The success stories abound.. Many of us have Mingle Meets..that's fun and you get to meet the people you've been visiting with on line.
I think you'll find Mingle is not your everyday run of the mill dating site...before you know it..you'll be part of a huge online family..enjoy yourself!flowerforyou

I find instant gratification galore on the Internet, Vivian. You just have to know how to use these sites. (I use the pictures only. For the sake of humanity, please don't ask me to elaborate.)


No problem wux....don't need that visuallaugh laugh