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Thu 07/21/11 07:17 PM
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Thu 07/21/11 09:25 PM
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Fri 07/22/11 09:03 AM
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Fri 07/22/11 12:46 PM
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just one ??
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Fri 07/22/11 12:53 PM
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just one ??
Oh gawd, not this again?
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Fri 07/22/11 01:00 PM
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just one ??
Oh gawd, not this again?
whaaAAaat
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Fri 07/22/11 01:01 PM
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Actually, I already got rid of mine. Shipped her out to Hawaii, where she's been for the last 13 years. Glad she's gone, especially after I checked out recently what became of her...
She got herself arrested twice last year, but one of them was apparently a drug charge. Looks like she's back doing the same thing again...
Glad I'm not part of it. I guess those NA meetings never helped her much.
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Fri 07/22/11 01:11 PM
Edited by
luv2roknroll
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Fri 07/22/11 01:11 PM
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Actually, I already got rid of mine. Shipped her out to Hawaii, where she's been for the last 13 years. Glad she's gone, especially after I checked out recently what became of her...
She got herself arrested twice last year, but one of them was apparently a drug charge. Looks like she's back doing the same thing again...
Glad I'm not part of it. I guess those NA meetings never helped her much.
From my own experience, a person does not quit until THEY ARE READY TO QUIT THEMSELVES! No meetings or counseling or begging or whatever is going to get anyone clean until they are ready to stop. I think God might help alittle too, but most of those who use, do not believe in God,and accept him as their savior.When I quit, I had nothing, no family, no meetings, no programs, just God and my Mingle family......but ah ha, I WAS READY TO QUIT! I was sick of being controlled by a substance that was also terrible for me. It told me when I was awake, when I was asleep, when I felt good, when I felt bad, when I had lots of energy, when I didnt have ANY energy, and that finally got OLD!Now im in control of my moods and existence on this planet, the way it should be. Im still bipolor but I fight with that everyday, and usually win.I also think that my being bipolor is a bi-product of my drug use, so I have no one but myself to blame for that.
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Fri 07/22/11 01:13 PM
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just one ??
Oh gawd, not this again?
whaaAAaat
Dont what me, you know what im talken about turtle!
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Fri 07/22/11 01:17 PM
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just one ??
Oh gawd, not this again?
whaaAAaat
Dont what me, you know what im talken about turtle!
but, butt.....
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Fri 07/22/11 01:21 PM
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just one ??
Oh gawd, not this again?
whaaAAaat
Dont what me, you know what im talken about turtle!
but, butt.....
the same joke, dont work on the same person, unless they are really stupid like _______!
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Fri 07/22/11 01:33 PM
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just one ??
Oh gawd, not this again?
whaaAAaat
Dont what me, you know what im talken about turtle!
but, butt.....
the same joke, dont work on the same person, unless they are really stupid like _______!
so...are you saying I'm not really stupid...or that you are ?
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Fri 07/22/11 01:36 PM
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just one ??
Oh gawd, not this again?
whaaAAaat
Dont what me, you know what im talken about turtle!
but, butt.....
the same joke, dont work on the same person, unless they are really stupid like _______!
so...are you saying I'm not really stupid...or that you are ?
Theres a name that fits in there, and its not yours or mine.
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Fri 07/22/11 01:40 PM
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just one ??
Oh gawd, not this again?
whaaAAaat
Dont what me, you know what im talken about turtle!
but, butt.....
the same joke, dont work on the same person, unless they are really stupid like _______!
so...are you saying I'm not really stupid...or that you are ?
Theres a name that fits in there, and its not yours or mine.
ok, spill it..
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Fri 07/22/11 01:46 PM
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just one ??
Oh gawd, not this again?
whaaAAaat
Dont what me, you know what im talken about turtle!
but, butt.....
the same joke, dont work on the same person, unless they are really stupid like _______!
so...are you saying I'm not really stupid...or that you are ?
Theres a name that fits in there, and its not yours or mine.
ok, spill it..
Cant, Ill get suspended.......AGAIN!
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Fri 07/22/11 01:59 PM
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just one ??
Oh gawd, not this again?
whaaAAaat
Dont what me, you know what im talken about turtle!
but, butt.....
the same joke, dont work on the same person, unless they are really stupid like _______!
so...are you saying I'm not really stupid...or that you are ?
Theres a name that fits in there, and its not yours or mine.
ok, spill it..
Cant, Ill get suspended.......AGAIN!
![laugh](https://eros.mingle2.com/main/resources/assets/smileys/laugh-de137b5fbdb787a884413b34a58ac97a.gif) ...we don't want that
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Fri 07/22/11 02:06 PM
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Actually, I already got rid of mine. Shipped her out to Hawaii, where she's been for the last 13 years. Glad she's gone, especially after I checked out recently what became of her...
She got herself arrested twice last year, but one of them was apparently a drug charge. Looks like she's back doing the same thing again...
Glad I'm not part of it. I guess those NA meetings never helped her much.
From my own experience, a person does not quit until THEY ARE READY TO QUIT THEMSELVES! No meetings or counseling or begging or whatever is going to get anyone clean until they are ready to stop. I think God might help alittle too, but most of those who use, do not believe in God,and accept him as their savior.When I quit, I had nothing, no family, no meetings, no programs, just God and my Mingle family......but ah ha, I WAS READY TO QUIT! I was sick of being controlled by a substance that was also terrible for me. It told me when I was awake, when I was asleep, when I felt good, when I felt bad, when I had lots of energy, when I didnt have ANY energy, and that finally got OLD!Now im in control of my moods and existence on this planet, the way it should be. Im still bipolor but I fight with that everyday, and usually win.I also think that my being bipolor is a bi-product of my drug use, so I have no one but myself to blame for that.
I don't know what she was caught with this time, but she quit smoking crack years ago. I never knew her to smoke weed, or use LSD, or snort cocaine. I could envision her using heroin or meth though.
Anyway, she would always skip out on NA meetings. When I knew her, she only drank, but she was thinner than perhaps she should have been. Plus, she was a cutter with scars on her wrists which she claimed was from a suicide attempt. Judging by the type of scarring, she was only playing at suicide wanting to make people believe that she was serious about it.
It was very messed up, and she was slightly goth. I never did get the full story out of her, but I know there were some deep serious issues. She opened up to me about some of it, but I could always tell there was more she was hiding.
She's approaching her mid-30s now, so I'm hoping she will come to her senses soon. Her parents and sister only live about 2 miles down the road from me. Every now and then, I run across them at the store. It always feels awkward. I sensed that her problems were partly due to family. I could almost feel denial inside that house. I just don't know what the source of it was.
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Fri 07/22/11 02:10 PM
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Actually, I already got rid of mine. Shipped her out to Hawaii, where she's been for the last 13 years. Glad she's gone, especially after I checked out recently what became of her...
She got herself arrested twice last year, but one of them was apparently a drug charge. Looks like she's back doing the same thing again...
Glad I'm not part of it. I guess those NA meetings never helped her much.
From my own experience, a person does not quit until THEY ARE READY TO QUIT THEMSELVES! No meetings or counseling or begging or whatever is going to get anyone clean until they are ready to stop. I think God might help alittle too, but most of those who use, do not believe in God,and accept him as their savior.When I quit, I had nothing, no family, no meetings, no programs, just God and my Mingle family......but ah ha, I WAS READY TO QUIT! I was sick of being controlled by a substance that was also terrible for me. It told me when I was awake, when I was asleep, when I felt good, when I felt bad, when I had lots of energy, when I didnt have ANY energy, and that finally got OLD!Now im in control of my moods and existence on this planet, the way it should be. Im still bipolor but I fight with that everyday, and usually win.I also think that my being bipolor is a bi-product of my drug use, so I have no one but myself to blame for that.
I don't know what she was caught with this time, but she quit smoking crack years ago. I never knew her to smoke weed, or use LSD, or snort cocaine. I could envision her using heroin or meth though.
Anyway, she would always skip out on NA meetings. When I knew her, she only drank, but she was thinner than perhaps she should have been. Plus, she was a cutter with scars on her wrists which she claimed was from a suicide attempt. Judging by the type of scarring, she was only playing at suicide wanting to make people believe that she was serious about it.
It was very messed up, and she was slightly goth. I never did get the full story out of her, but I know there were some deep serious issues. She opened up to me about some of it, but I could always tell there was more she was hiding.
She's approaching her mid-30s now, so I'm hoping she will come to her senses soon. Her parents and sister only live about 2 miles down the road from me. Every now and then, I run across them at the store. It always feels awkward. I sensed that her problems were partly due to family. I could almost feel denial inside that house. I just don't know what the source of it was.
The best thing you can do is pray for her. Im not sure what religion you are, ect......but in your own way, whatever it may be, pray for her. Thats the best I can offer you.
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Fri 07/22/11 02:20 PM
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Great advice! I'll second that
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Fri 07/22/11 02:29 PM
Edited by
luv2roknroll
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Fri 07/22/11 02:31 PM
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