Topic: What stands out to you?
Holly4459's photo
Wed 06/15/11 06:15 PM

Poor vision.
what???what Por que senor?spock

Totage's photo
Wed 06/15/11 06:18 PM

What traits stand out to you whan you are looking for someone
to date or be in a relationship with?


I guess it depends on the individual. Sometimes it can be their kindness, sense of humor, cleverness, intelligence, wit, etc. just depends on the individual and what traits they seem to have an abundance of and/or the intensity of any traits.

metalwing's photo
Wed 06/15/11 06:18 PM


Poor vision.
what???what Por que senor?spock


Just kidding!

A beautiful smile to start!!:smile:

Holly4459's photo
Wed 06/15/11 06:25 PM



Poor vision.
what???what Por que senor?spock


Just kidding!

A beautiful smile to start!!:smile:
bigsmile

galendgirl's photo
Wed 06/15/11 06:26 PM


Poor vision.
what???what Por que senor?spock


metalwing's photo
Wed 06/15/11 06:26 PM




Poor vision.
what???what Por que senor?spock


Just kidding!

A beautiful smile to start!!:smile:
bigsmile

happy flowerforyou

galendgirl's photo
Wed 06/15/11 06:29 PM



Poor vision.
what???what Por que senor?spock


Just kidding!

A beautiful smile to start!!:smile:


Chazster's photo
Wed 06/15/11 06:33 PM
Boobies because they are what "sticks out " the most from her body. XD

no photo
Wed 06/15/11 07:09 PM
She has got to be naturally easy going. If she does not possess the ability to turn a potential disagreement into humor or deal with the situation quickly don't even come knocking. I'm not saying she can't be spicy or vocal about any topic she wants but if it is going to be a night of debate this boy is off the debate team.

If she can say "I need space" I'm the biggest space giver out there. I've got tons I can do on my own. Doesn't mean she will not be on my mind, it just means she deserves a break today (just like McDonald's).

She needs to be someone that is slowly (or quickly) pulling me into her sex trap. In the back of every adult mind is the thought of how the physical union will be. I don't care if it never gets past a glance, if it doesn't pull me into that sweet spot in my mind I'm not interested in playing solo.

If she is a player she better be ready to never make it past friend with me cause she hasn't a chance. I'm not saying flirt, I'm saying player. She can be as big of a flirt as she wants, I'm pretty secure in the flirt department.

If it does develop into something and for some reason she looks at another guy with that "pull him to the bedroom look" (beyond fantasy or flirting ,were talking the look of cheating) she needs to know that I am probably the fastest guy she will ever see leaving her and not looking back. I will not talk bad about her or to her, I will simply be gone.

I like a woman who wants her way and is looking for a man to fit them like a glove. If she is secure enough to look at what she wants enough to let me look at what I want then we have an opportunity to serve each other rather than take from each other.

Yes, I can easily get this deep on a first date. There is a difference between feeling pressure from someone on a date and two people sharing life on a first date. I have no desire what so ever to see if I can hook her, did that, done, feel bad about ever being that way with women.

Finding out what a woman really wants is so important and the faster you get on that track the faster you can be truly useful as a friend to her. Being friends and seeing them find true love with someone other than you is a thrill.

Well guess that's it for chapter one.

Anyone want an application? LOL

bastet126's photo
Wed 06/15/11 07:20 PM
ribbons of symmetry, woven with flecks of complimentary differences, all wrapped in a warm, familiar blanket.

no photo
Wed 06/15/11 07:24 PM

ribbons of symmetry, woven with flecks of complimentary differences, all wrapped in a warm, familiar blanket.


^^^^^ Nice Verbage bastet!

no photo
Wed 06/15/11 07:47 PM

What traits stand out to you, whan you are looking for someone
to date, or be in a relationship with?


Style. A sense of style is a trait. I love a Lady that enjoys wearing a nice pretty dress ^_^

Accent. I like a nice pleasent accent.

The little shy laugh. Gotta love that! :D

The type of girl, that you've just got, to say hello too. Romeo's Julliet! ;D

no photo
Wed 06/15/11 08:10 PM
Confidence without arrogance, open minded, honest and has a good sense of humor.

no photo
Wed 06/15/11 08:18 PM
First,,if we CAN communicate well with each other.
Like if she gets IT?,,,and if she can surprise my mind?.
The act of us BOTH being attracted to the others personality and mind.
Second,,If in person they look at me with an innocents and yet a yearning to reach-out, and or direct,, or to suggest? Showing she is fully her own person. And we each feel the other is very kissable in our minds....
Third,,That they have no-hang-ups with pasts,,or presents? That they are in a true relaxed mind with me..any over dramatized statements that repeat themselves,,is a look deeper into them..

If these above all go great,,or 90 percent anyway,,then I would feel we might have a good chance of having fun with each other and laughing together over the same things in life..:heart:

wux's photo
Wed 06/15/11 08:25 PM

What stands out the most to me are the things they want to hide.


Positively.

For instance, I notice women for their breasts, some of them. More so than for their one other stuff that's unmistakably "womanly" about them.

This means that breasts are more of a hideable for women than their neather regions.

Goes to reason, and I agree.

The bottom part: You have seen one, you've seen them all. The breasts, on the other hand, are much more an individual expression that women use to express themselves with.

I dunno. Maybe I am just a plain old dirty old man. Possible.

wux's photo
Wed 06/15/11 08:28 PM

ribbons of symmetry, woven with flecks of complimentary differences, all wrapped in a warm, familiar blanket.


That's me. Every inch of it, exactly as you said.

kre8karma's photo
Wed 06/15/11 08:52 PM
smart, playful, loyal, direct, sense of humor, happy, positive, warm, eyes light up when he sees me.....oh , wait....I just described my dog, didn't I?

no photo
Wed 06/15/11 08:54 PM
Values, morals, thinking for oneself, interest in humanity, ...the usual.

Gooddeal's photo
Wed 06/15/11 09:00 PM
Most times the eyes for me(they are the window) after that I need to know that the individual is comfortable in her own skin....first time meeting nervousness aside.:thumbsup:

bastet126's photo
Thu 06/16/11 04:08 PM


ribbons of symmetry, woven with flecks of complimentary differences, all wrapped in a warm, familiar blanket.


^^^^^ Nice Verbage bastet!


inspiration troublebug, it is the best! :wink: