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If a person tells you that upfront, do you still date them to see what happens. Or just avoid wasting thier time?
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If they tell you that up front, and you don't have any intention of marrying anyone, be up front with them.
Some people just like to date, some are looking for "the one" to marry. Be honest. |
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If they tell you that up front, and you don't have any intention of marrying anyone, be up front with them. Some people just like to date, some are looking for "the one" to marry. Be honest. |
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If they tell you that up front, and you don't have any intention of marrying anyone, be up front with them. Some people just like to date, some are looking for "the one" to marry. Be honest. LOL Tell them that. Be open right from the start. |
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If a person tells you that upfront, do you still date them to see what happens. Or just avoid wasting thier time? If they're determined to get married, I wouldn't pursue it. That's something I have no intention of doing again. |
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I would be open to marriage down the road to the right person. But, I am not dating specifically to find someone to marry right now.
That being said, I find it a little overwhelming when someone says right up front, before you even know anything about them, that they're looking for someone to marry. That's a little too serious for me right off the bat. |
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I would be open to marriage down the road to the right person. But, I am not dating specifically to find someone to marry right now. That being said, I find it a little overwhelming when someone says right up front, before you even know anything about them, that they're looking for someone to marry. That's a little too serious for me right off the bat. |
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If a person tells you that upfront, do you still date them to see what happens. Or just avoid wasting thier time? that's a tough one as I am open to an LTR and to a degree marriage..possibly but when someone states that up front I tend to hedge a little because I am afraid to disappoint him - like if we date or talk at all he's gonna think we're getting married.... but then, I am doing myself no favors because I prolly have missed some really good guys because of this nonetheless I prefer to let things progress for awhile before asking a lot of questions and talking about commitments |
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avoid wasting their time
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Thanks but no thanks. At the very least one needs to give it time.
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Thanks but no thanks. At the very least one needs to give it time. ^this...marriage |
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I would be open to marriage down the road to the right person. But, I am not dating specifically to find someone to marry right now. That being said, I find it a little overwhelming when someone says right up front, before you even know anything about them, that they're looking for someone to marry. That's a little too serious for me right off the bat. |
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I would be open to marriage down the road to the right person. But, I am not dating specifically to find someone to marry right now. That being said, I find it a little overwhelming when someone says right up front, before you even know anything about them, that they're looking for someone to marry. That's a little too serious for me right off the bat. Why oops? |
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I would be open to marriage down the road to the right person. But, I am not dating specifically to find someone to marry right now. That being said, I find it a little overwhelming when someone says right up front, before you even know anything about them, that they're looking for someone to marry. That's a little too serious for me right off the bat. Why oops? old topic (you are consistent) |
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lol
all these threads are covering the same topic... |
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I am consistent because I've been honest about what I've been saying.
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If a person tells you that upfront, do you still date them to see what happens. Or just avoid wasting thier time? I think it's good be upfront with your long term desires such as marriage. It's a deal breaker, either way, for many and if you go on a date it should come up fairly soon. It doesn't have to be the first date...that would be weird. But, definitely by the time you've decided you want to date this person more often. |
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If they tell you that up front, and you don't have any intention of marrying anyone, be up front with them. Some people just like to date, some are looking for "the one" to marry. Be honest. To avoid having to deal with a psycho who will burst your car windows or graffiti your office block...you need to make up your mind about what it is you are looking for..otherwise, don't waste somebody else's time..its cruel! |
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lol all these threads are covering the same topic... Yes, and I'm wondering if they are being created to drive a particular point home from different angles or what is up. Kind of like, I can't prove it on this thread so I'll make another, well that one didn't work so how about this way, well maybe I was misunderstood so how about this one. I went through this in the religious section before and it gets old. |
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If a person tells you that upfront, do you still date them to see what happens. Or just avoid wasting thier time? I think it's good when somebody knows what they want and are upfront about it. Personally, I came here looking for only a LTR. Hopefully with that 'Long Term' becoming forever (the party bus has left!). However, if 'papers' are involved........who knows..... |
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