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Topic: what do you think?
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Wed 05/18/11 07:51 PM

one of the hardest factors is my step sister. She still lives with her and i'm not afraid of not talking to my sister, but of my sister getting upset because she is her mom. But i.ve already told her no and that i don't feel comfortable with her in there and she is so mad i doubt she'll even bring my sister to the hospital. I want whats best for my lil one and sacrifice comes with it.


u will feel good knowing that u are beyond being able to be manipulated by any family members with selfish motives

and ur making decisions in the best interest of your child & yourself

and see, my idea of selfishness is unique- she prolly thinks she's being generous to want to be there at delivery - but really it's selfish because she's intruding in a private moment out of some agenda of her own that is not ur problem.

dealing with people who have such a profound lack of intelligence regarding personal boundaries is difficult

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Wed 05/18/11 08:00 PM
indeed. She throws these pity parties too. Oh woe is me. And i'm so tired of it. This is my life. She's not even family and i'm done. I can't do it anymore.

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Wed 05/18/11 08:06 PM
cheer up! surround yourself with folks who d not bring u down - think of what an awesome and special time this is!!!!

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Wed 05/18/11 08:13 PM
thank you :)

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