A little extra never killed any one. BUT BUT BUT would you date Jabba the Hut in female form?



Um, I am supposed to find that attractive?

There is Aesthetically challenged and there is "Is this the same species as me?"

Look, I know women are not attracted to a guy who has a dickydoo! SO the idea of a woman dating Jabba the Hut is out of the question in my mind unless he wooed her with HUGE sums of money! Then we know where the love is there.

Life sucks when your picky!

I suck...

I am picky!

People of Wal-Mart....NEVER ceases to amaze me.........

Yeah, I am just so turned on right now I want to run up and ask her her phone number.



How people can let themselves go like that is beyond me.

I think she's shopping for laxatives.......

Are you sure she isn't shopping for Krill?

Maybe plankton?

Considering that weight gain is not always a failure of caring for oneself.

There are physical reasons for weight gain and there are medications and psychological causes too.

It is always easy to sit somewhere else and judge when you can't get into a person's life and know whether it was their fault or not.

It is actually more sickening to watch men judge women on this level and make themselves look like a sses.

Hey, I resemble that remark.

Well....I've stated my position on this all day. These threads are tending to get cruel. I have no right to judge anybody I don't know. HOWEVER......this is an amusing turn of events.

I have problems....just like everybody else. Might not be the same problems as you.....but I have them. So....NO....I have no right to judge.....

This person is morbidly obese and undoubtedly has many health issues related to his/her weight. This is a bad situation to allow yourself to be in....assuming that their weight gain is not medical. I have struggled with my weight due to prescription meds for Lupus, however, it is a major priority for me to keep my weight down because of the health complications of weight gain.

Anyway, my real problem with the person is NOT their weight, but their clothing choice. WTH???? Buy a top that goes completely over the body....no matter what size you are!

Both men and women have different preferences when it comes to dating. Some only like skinny men/women. Some prefer bigger men/women. Though, it is the men who tend to attack more when it comes to weight. You just don't see women being quite as mean when it comes to putting someone down for being fat. I'm sure it can happen, but men have been nastier. It can be seen right in this thread.

Usually when you have morbid obesity it is a symptom of other issues going on. Making fun of them doesn't help them regardless to your personal preferences.

And there is someone out there for everyone. No one is unworthy of love.

Would you say the same of a skinny woman? If not then you are being discriminatory and that isn't fair.

You need to read what I wrote.



As a side note, I have no problem being discriminatory or unfair.

Agreed!

I was talking about her clothing.

Do you go around telling skinny women to cover it up?

A health issue may be the reason for the extra weight, not the other way around.

I guess that is hard for people to comprehend who do not have health problems that prevent movement and then have meds on top of that that put on the weight.

Why do you not see what I wrote???? It's like you're reading what you want to read rather than what is there. My very last sentence...."no matter what size you are".

Um, yeah, I do understand considering I have that very problem. As I stated in my post that was NOT condemning her for her weight. Sheesh.