LADIES PLEASE KNOW THAT THIS IS NOT AIMED AS AN ATTACK ON YOU ALL. IT IS AN ATTEMPT TO HELP YOU ALL WHO HAVE BEEN THRU SOME THING IN LIFE REGAURDING MEN.

MOST WOMEN SAY THEY ARE LOOKING FOR A GOOD MAN. BUT WITH THE SAME BREATH THEY SAY THEY DO NOT NEED A MAN IN THEIR LIFE, THEY GOT A D_ _ K (toy) IN THE DRAWER. I JUST WANT TO KNOW IF THERE ARE ANY WOMEN OUT THERE WHO ARE NOT HUNG UP ON WHAT A MAN CAN DO FOR YOU PHYSICALLY. WHAT ABOUT BEING EMOTIONALY AND SPIRITUALLY THERE FOR THE ONE YOU LOVE. BECAUSE WHEN THE PHYSICAL APEARENCE AND THE SEX GET OLD, THEN WHAT? RELATIONSHIPS BUILT ON SAND WILL NEVER STAND FIRM AND STRAIGHT. IT WILL SOON BEGIN TO FALL APART. LOVE FIND LOVE IN ITS TRUEST FORM. THE PHYSICAL ATTRACTS, BUT NOW, LET ME GET TO KNOW YOU IN YOUR TRUEST FORM. I WANT TO KNOW WHAT YOU THINK, WHAT YOU LIKE, WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS ABOUT OUR COUNTRY TRYING TO TAKE OVER (OR DESTROY) THIS WORLD? WHAT, IF ANYTHING, MATTERS TO YOU? IS YOUR HEART SO HARDEN, THAT YOU CAN'T TRUST LOVE AGAIN? IT WAS NOT LOVE THAT FAILED YOU. IT WAS A HUMAN BEING THAT YOU GAVE YOUR LOVE TO AND THEY IN RETURN TOOK YOUR LOVE AND FAILED TO GIVE LOVE BACK. SO NO OTHER WOMAN, TOY, MAN OR ANOTHER COLOR IS GOING TO CHANGE THE SITUATION. IT IS UP TO US TO REALIZE THE MISTAKES WE MAKE. WE SOMETIME JUMP WITH OUT LOOKING. WE THROW CAUTION TO THE WIND FOR A HOT BODY. WE TRY TO MAKE SOMEONE LOVE US, JUST BECAUSE WE LOVE THEM. WE LET OUR HEART BE ABUSED BY A NO GOOD PERSON, WHO ONLY HAVE THEIR OWN INTEREST AT HEART. WE FAIL TO CORRECT THE SITUATION BEFORE IT GET OUT OF HAND. MOST OF ALL WE TEND TO WALK AROUND WITH BLINDERS ON. WE SEE NO EVIL AND HEAR NO EVIL, AND SPEAK NOT AGAINST THE EVIL THINGS WE ALLOW THAT NEW FOUND LOVE DO TO US PHYSICALLY AS WELL AS EMOTIONALLY. I WONDER, IS LOVE TRULY BLIND. OR ARE WE JUST A DAMN FOOL FOR LOVE.

MY LOVE! PERSONALLY SPEAKING, I WILL NOT LET ANY ONE TRAMPLE OVER IT AGAIN. I'M GOING TO PROTECT THE LOVE I GIVE. AND I WILL CHECK THE ONE I GIVE IT TO FOR THE LEAST BIT OF FRACTION OR SOUND OF ABUSE. SO WE MIGHT BE ABLE TO GROW AS ONE.

LOVE AND RELATIONSHIPS SHOULD NOT EVER SEEM LIKE A PRISON SENTENCE OR SOMETHING YOU HAVE TO WORK HARD AT. TRUE LOVE FLOWS AS ONE IN HARMONY. EACH VOW OF LOVE FOR ONE ANOTHER SHOULD SHINE SO BRIGHT, THAT THE GLARE IT SELF MOVES OTHERS TO SAY WOW, YOU LOOK LIKE YOU ARE IN LOVE BEFORE YOU MEET THE PERSON TALKING TO YOU. EVERY AND ALL THINGS WITH LOVE, IS NOT A LIST OF CHORES OR A SCHEDULE THAT IS NEEDED TO FORCE ONE TO MAKE LOVE GROW. EITHER IT IS THERE OR IT HAS BEEN LOST IN TRANSLATION. TO TRY AND MAKE, MOLD, AND BUILD LOVE IS JUST A DREAM WE HAD WHEN WE THOUGHT AS A CHILD. TRUE LIFE AND LOVE GOES HAND IN HAND. EITHER IT THERE OR IT IS NOT. AND THERE IS NOTHING ONE CAN DO TO MAKE IT COME TO LIFE IN AN INDIVIDUAL. EITHER THAT PERSON HAS LOVE AND IS WILLING TO SHARE HIS OR HER LOVE OR THEY ARE NOT. THERE IS NO WAY ONE CAN NOT TELL, IF SOME ONE IS FAKING THEIR LOVE FOR ANOTHER PERSON. ONE CAN WANT A PERSON SO BAD THAT THEY CAN LET THEMSELVES BE DELUSIONAL AND A BIT PHYCOTIC. THAT ONLY LEADS TO LOVE TURNED TO HATE, HATE FOR SELF AND OTHERS. YOU FIND RELATIONSHIPS NOT WORKING BECAUSE OF THE PAIN YOUR HEART IS FEELING FROM THE PAST RELATIONSHIP. YOU LET YOUR HEART BE ABUSED TO THE POINT WHERE IT IS ALMOST BEYOND REPAIR. AND YOUR HEART I SCARED TO TRUST YOU, BECAUSE YOU ALLOWED IT TO BE HURT AND BE STOMPED ON. INSTEAD OF CHECKING THE WRONG BEFORE IT GOT STARTED. . I SAY DO NOT BE AFRAID TO LET YOUR LOVE SHINE. JUST BE AWARE AND OPEN UP YOUR MOUTH WHEN THE PERSON YOU GIVE IT TO, TRIES TO DULL THE SHINE THAT YOU ARE GIVING.

HAPPINESS IN LOVE IS A GREAT THING. SO COME ON PEOPLE LET’S START TO LOVE OUR SELVES JUST A LITTLE BIT MORE. IT WILL GIVE OUR HEARTS A MUCH NEEDED HEALING. IT TRULY STARTS FROM WITH IN. HOW CAN YOU SAY YOU LOVE ANYONE, WHEN YOU HAVE ALL THIS HATE FOR SELF AND OTHERS. START LOVING YOU SO YOU CAN KNOW TRUE LOVE. START BY TREATING YOURSELF TO OUTINGS. JUST TELL SELF, "WE ARE GOING TO DO SOMETHING BY OUR SELF TODAY". THAT MIGHT BE TAKING IN A MOVIE OR GOING TO THE SPA. WHATEVER IT IS MAKE SURE THAT YOU TAKE ONLY SELF WITH YOU. NURTURE YOU! PAMPER YOU! LOVE YOU THAT DAY! OR YOU CAN BE AT HOME RELAXED AND REFLECTING ON YOU. A HOT BATH OR CUDDLED UP IN SHEETS WITH ONLY YOU AND A GOOD BOOK (MAYBE TALKING ABOUT LOVE OF SELF). SHUT OUT ALL PROBLEMS EXCUSES FOR NOT TAKING TIME TO LOVE YOU, AND JUST GIVE LOVING YOU A TRY. IT WILL WORK WONDERS IN YOUR LIFE. I WANT YOU ALL TO LET ME KNOW IF I AM WRONG. OKAY, LET US MARK DAYS ON THE CALENDER FOR US. WE WILL CALL IT LOVE MYSELF DAY. ON THAT DAY DAY IT WILL BE ALL ABOUT YOU DAY. AT LEAST UNTIL WE GET IN TO THE HABIT OF LOVING SELF ON A REGULAR BASIS. I WISH YOU ALL PEACE,AND BLESSINGS QUEENS. ODIS

LOL 2Kids...

Too much is based on sex these days. How did it get so out of hand? I can't see how someone would decide someone is the one just by meeting at a bar, and taking them to a hotel, for meaningless sex. It doesn't make sense. People don't consider to think of consequences, or how they're fooling themselves. It's all hype.

@ 2kids

Obviously some woman has done to you what a few have done to me. Don't let it get you down guy, its just what they say to make themselves feel better. Men and women both need the things you mentioned and she knows this but has decided to let it go to waste out of sheer foolishness or ignorance. Its thier way to make us feel worthless and unneeded. Women feel attacked when we try to save them from thier common mistakes, men usually feel the same way when its done to us. Let this be a lesson to you on her character and decision making skills. Let the b***h drown in her own misery.

2Kids this is the funniest thing lol

"WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS ABOUT OUR COUNTRY TRYING TO TAKE OVER (OR DESTROY) THIS WORLD?"


You can't handle my thoughts on your country trying to take over/destroy the world.


....and the more you yell...the less I listen.


Thanks for the fire and brimstone sermon...if you ever give up cheffing...perhaps you could take up religion?

I was thinking the same thing as it sounds like a sermon; however he is right that we should love ourselves first. Works for me.