i need these good words bad right now thnks

It has its ups and downs but yes they can work, With Honesty, Communication and Trust,, nothing is impossible
Its a long hard road,, yet a road I choose to travel on,,,

very bumpy and hurtful

yes can be both,, yet when two hearts are in it together they weather the storms together,, makes for a stronger relationship
Compromise,, love and Respect will and can go a long way

thanks i am hoping so myself

Best Of Luck to you

the long distance sex sucks!!!! Hmmmm I mean the non sex!!!

I would NOT want a long distance relationship.. i know that it wouldnt work.. i also know that when iam in a relationship.. i like spending alot of time TOGETHER and if it was a long distance thing it just wouldnt work.
but.. ill say this if i met the right person.. i would consider re locating.

6000 miles plus is a hell of a distance to relocate, but if the situation arose, and it was the right person then I guess I would give it serious consideration.

i gave it a go.


It takes two baby

Not meant for uk

I mean, that's right. It takes 2 to make it work, but a long distance relationship could work if thats what the 2 people really wanted. For me, personally, I believe it would work. I don't mind driving, or whatever, to see her.

Yah riva. It does take two to make a baby.

What happens if one is sincere and one is a player.....

Then I guess you try and work it out, and play them back

Oh like a return in tennis.....

you ace them from the start

Confront them on the playing,
tell them hurting people's feeling is not cool.
Out them to the group,
"1 bad apple can spoil the whole barrel"
I can't understand players, give the rest of us a bad name.

it really depends on a lot of things. Both ppl have to keep an open mind and have to be putting in the same amount of effort for it to work.

Long idstance Relationships come down to the ver syame thnig that Close istance Relationships do: The willingnessto make the relationship work. If you are not willing to make it work no matter what the cost personally, then it is doomed fromt he start no matter if you live next door, five miles away, or 1000 miles away.
Trust is not any more an issue in ldr than cdr either,a s either way you have to trust them to remain faithful or whatever. If you cannot trust them, then you dont beling in the relationship.

Now, I have tried the ldr twice; the first one clsoed out on us because she was not willing to wait to come back to me (She was deployed to Bosnia and I was in New York), and the second one, lasted the seperation (this was when my ex was deployed to Iraq, lol nad no I do NOT have a thing for military girls lol). She was gone for almost a year, had several very traumatic issues happen while deployed, and still came home and we were still in love as much as we were the first day together. Three years later howver is a diferent story, lol.

ight now, I am hoping to start another LDR with a beautiful lady from Maryland. Wether it owrks outor not I haveno idea at this point but I definitely wnat tog ive it a shot if she is willing as well. She is higly intelligent along with beautiful. My breathe stops whenever I see her picture, and it starts again when I see her pop up on im. She has inspiredme to write morepoetry that I have not posted on here or naywhere other than her im page.
She is extrmely caring and sensitive, and even though her ex treated her like dirt she is still holding herself up and not lettign it get her down.
So yes, I am hoping to start a ldr soon, and we will see ifit works out. I garuntee one thing however, we will alwyas remain friends no matter what may ormay not happen otherwise.

If both parties are willing to work it out then it might work. Everytime I met someone from another state, they always asked me to come over and meet them. Don't they supposed to come over where I live and meet me?

long distance to me is ok ive talked to a lot of men and they say long distance wont work