why do some men say their interested and you talk a lot to them and you email back and forth , and then nothing , of course he did live far away

Well coco... it's his lost.

If you are talking about me? I AM interested, and yeah, the distance IS a problem. Especialy since I wont catch a vacation until next friggin year.

you hear the guys ask the same question about women
i guess it is people in general
distance is a problem
others just want something else
hmmmmmmm

They do it when they're close as well.....sad actually....

If they are close, THAT is wrong.

Grey said it best....his loss. Most times distance does play into it...but I figure if they are really interested then the distance can be over come.

thnk you grey hound

nice cat cat and thanks

maybe in general their thinkin' their interested,then start fallin uninterested....or reinterested in somethin else.... so they don't follow through,and their to chicken to say " hey I changed my mind."

"Sun 07/08/07 01:35 PM
If they are close, THAT is wrong."

I agree...its very unkind....

kaed i didnt know you were interested and no it wasnt you

*whew* I thought for e moment I was comming off like an asshole.

Yes Coco, you are a very wonderfull person. the fact yoyu live in canada and not here SUCKS!.

Oh, and you know how to put a smile on my face when I'm feelin' down too.

Coco women do it too. I have had them contact me and then nothing. I don't get either

i try my best kaed

Coco...

What I find generally is...I think men and women are so different with how they feel about things.

Women generally want to be in relationships, I don't think men care as much as women do. That might sound like a generalization, and I don't mean to come off like that. I think we just see things differently....that's all

At least a "F off your not my type" or a "Go F yourself" would be better than just being ignored.

It's harder for a man. mostly because the outlook on guys is 'they just want sex' and a guy who generaly acts nice is 'putting on an act to get sex.' I have gone through it, not here, but elsewhere and I find it somthing that is hard to get around. As I stated in a post a while ago, most, if not all, of my friends are in relationships/married. So when I hang out with them, we never go to dingles spots, there for, I'm left wit hthe internet, mostly because I refuse to go to a bar alone. I HATE going anywhere by myself... awkward feeling.

dingles=singles

who u calling a dingle? :D