if there are so many lonely people on this site why dont you
contact people if they reply if you contact people you might notbe alone

I think there are just as many lonely men. You yourself must be lonely to worry whether someone replies or not. Even when I am alone, I am never lonely for I am creative and believe in myself. It is easy to start a conversation when out amongst people with a simple opening of the mouth and saying hello.

I see what he is saying though. I mean, on my part, I will write to people just to talk, but they will never write back, then I see posts they make about how they wish they had someone they could talk to. It kind of baffles me.

I know hwat you mean cv, I write to a lot of people and dont always get a response even though tehy ask for people to write to them. it just doesnt make sense.

I believe that I have responded back to all that wrote me.....except for one.....Just didn't know how to respond to the man who commented on my breasts, then asked if we could be friends..........

lol snuggle

Have you ever thought it could be that you write them and ask them to tell you more about themselves. If they have a profile and you read it, you already know more about them, it is time to just have a conversation back and forth. It is hard enough to write a profile, but you feel put on the spot with the tell me more thing. Come on you have read their profile, it is time to introduce yourself and give them something to comment on.

hi i find myself lonely at times ive had alot of players, you would think i would learn by now and people at work are getting married and you are happy for them and u think am i ever going to

Well I am afraid to write guys back anymore just as friends...I have on my profile not looking and just here for friends because I have already met my someone special..BUT it seems even though I say that...at some point...It turns out they want more and I'm tired of being put in that position and having them get all upset like I never said anything in the first place...Especially when I am honest about only wanting to be friends right from the start...So I don't even bother anymore...unless I already know them from the forums!!!!!!!!