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I haven't been able to even think to start a relationship for 3 years, there's nothing wrong with me, but I've been just used and seen the side of other situations with relationships and just don't have trust in anybody so I don't try to connect with many. I'm not one of them that just looks for sex, I actually want to know the person I end up playing around with first a bit. Seems like years past everyone just wanted some pleasure, and when they didn't get in contact with me for a while they moved on. Even friendships at that matter anymore, there nobody to trust nobody that can't just listen or tell someone whats goin on or why they feel the way they do. Anyone have a problem like mine? Not to just discuss problems but just need some advice again I guess... You're still so young to give up on trusting anybody, let alone a future mate. What you experienced could be something that made you lose your trust to the person/s involved but surely not every body deserves to be mistrusted. One reaps what what one sows...if one wants to always be cherished as a friend, one should cherish his/her friend by keeping constant contact. Real friends understand when a friend want solitude so they tend to provide space, not necessarily moving on with the friendship lost. Hope you find back the trust you used to have for the people around you 
I haven't given up, I feel misplaced, forgotten. I moved on and was set back into my old life as everyone else moved on in the same path they've been for years. One thing changed and they all just followed, lol I need a new group I guess. |
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I feel u, and I thought I was the only one. Glad I'm not but really tired of trying to figure out "why"..
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I haven't been able to even think to start a relationship for 3 years, there's nothing wrong with me, but I've been just used and seen the side of other situations with relationships and just don't have trust in anybody so I don't try to connect with many. I'm not one of them that just looks for sex, I actually want to know the person I end up playing around with first a bit. Seems like years past everyone just wanted some pleasure, and when they didn't get in contact with me for a while they moved on. Even friendships at that matter anymore, there nobody to trust nobody that can't just listen or tell someone whats goin on or why they feel the way they do. Anyone have a problem like mine? Not to just discuss problems but just need some advice again I guess... You're still so young to give up on trusting anybody, let alone a future mate. What you experienced could be something that made you lose your trust to the person/s involved but surely not every body deserves to be mistrusted. One reaps what what one sows...if one wants to always be cherished as a friend, one should cherish his/her friend by keeping constant contact. Real friends understand when a friend want solitude so they tend to provide space, not necessarily moving on with the friendship lost. Hope you find back the trust you used to have for the people around you
I haven't given up, I feel misplaced, forgotten. I moved on and was set back into my old life as everyone else moved on in the same path they've been for years. One thing changed and they all just followed, lol I need a new group I guess. you remind me of one of my favorite songs by the Dixie Chicks (yes Ima little country - be patient) it's where she sings about how her friends from high school all settled down in the same zip codes where their parents lived, but she couldn't follow that path - she got a pink RV with stars on the ceiling and hit the highway not everyone is met to be on the same path for years Shaggy |
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I've been feeling very disconnected from family and friends for a long time. (They're not there for me either, although I've always been the first to offer a hand in the past) What I'm learning today is that I'm not alone, many of you have a similar experience. Making friends here is easing the burden a bit. Thanks everyone!!
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I haven't been able to even think to start a relationship for 3 years, there's nothing wrong with me, but I've been just used and seen the side of other situations with relationships and just don't have trust in anybody so I don't try to connect with many. I'm not one of them that just looks for sex, I actually want to know the person I end up playing around with first a bit. Seems like years past everyone just wanted some pleasure, and when they didn't get in contact with me for a while they moved on. Even friendships at that matter anymore, there nobody to trust nobody that can't just listen or tell someone whats goin on or why they feel the way they do. Anyone have a problem like mine? Not to just discuss problems but just need some advice again I guess... Well I'm going on two years and I know the feeling. Thanks to some great comments and advice from others on this site, it has all helped so much. There are a lot of great people on here. Friendships come in different ways and with how crazy life can get at time, it's nice to have others to turn to. I hope it gets better for you, you joined a great site. :) |
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