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Topic: Guys Turn. What are Men Looking For?
artlo Joined Sat 01/29/11 Posts: 3085	Sat 02/26/11 04:46 PM
What are the qualities that attract you in the first place? What qualities are you hoping or once the relationship is under way?

rockstarjv Joined Fri 02/05/10 Posts: 9	Sat 02/26/11 04:52 PM Edited by rockstarjv on Sat 02/26/11 04:52 PM
Honesty, humor, etc. are all important but i think that being open is one of the most at first. I have dated a few girls who clam up and its so annoying because you wish you could say that she is giving you a fair chance but you cant.

artlo Joined Sat 01/29/11 Posts: 3085	Sat 02/26/11 04:55 PM
Aww, c'mon Rockstar, you can do better than that. What about all those preference catagories in our profile displays? The things that Mingle uses to pick matches for you. Don't those things matter?

burgundybry Joined Mon 03/05/07 Posts: 8084	Sat 02/26/11 05:04 PM
Aww, c'mon Rockstar, you can do better than that. What about all those preference catagories in our profile displays? The things that Mingle uses to pick matches for you. Don't those things matter? ..according to Mingle, I have over 10,000 matches...everyone's a winner!!!

artlo Joined Sat 01/29/11 Posts: 3085	Sat 02/26/11 05:14 PM
God must love you!!

paul1217 Joined Fri 01/29/10 Posts: 904	Sat 02/26/11 05:15 PM
I'm looking for my best friend, someone that I can talk to about anything. I don't look for qualities in a person, I look for the quality of the person.

artlo Joined Sat 01/29/11 Posts: 3085	Sat 02/26/11 05:18 PM
I'm looking for my best friend, someone that I can talk to about anything. I don't look for qualities in a person, I look for the quality of the person. I don't believe you. I'll give you an example. I think looks matter. I don't want to be intimate with a woman who, in my eyes, looks like my grandmother.

burgundybry Joined Mon 03/05/07 Posts: 8084	Sat 02/26/11 05:18 PM
God must love you!! Ha! Nah, just set my paramenters nationwide...does wonders for my ego,

artlo Joined Sat 01/29/11 Posts: 3085	Sat 02/26/11 05:20 PM
So how many 13 year olds have nudged you?

burgundybry Joined Mon 03/05/07 Posts: 8084	Sat 02/26/11 05:24 PM
So how many 13 year olds have nudged you?

Sneaksintoyourheart Joined Fri 10/16/09 Posts: 19261	Sat 02/26/11 05:25 PM
Aww, c'mon Rockstar, you can do better than that. What about all those preference catagories in our profile displays? The things that Mingle uses to pick matches for you. Don't those things matter? ..according to Mingle, I have over 10,000 matches...everyone's a winner!!! only 10,000 what number am i at lol

burgundybry Joined Mon 03/05/07 Posts: 8084	Sat 02/26/11 05:33 PM
Aww, c'mon Rockstar, you can do better than that. What about all those preference catagories in our profile displays? The things that Mingle uses to pick matches for you. Don't those things matter? ..according to Mingle, I have over 10,000 matches...everyone's a winner!!! only 10,000 what number am i at lol well, out of 10,000, about 8,000 were last seen over a month ago, 1,999 live too far away, or are lesbians.....and I think I seen the other, hanging out by the bar with a shopping cart a few days ago

Sneaksintoyourheart Joined Fri 10/16/09 Posts: 19261	Sat 02/26/11 05:34 PM
Aww, c'mon Rockstar, you can do better than that. What about all those preference catagories in our profile displays? The things that Mingle uses to pick matches for you. Don't those things matter? ..according to Mingle, I have over 10,000 matches...everyone's a winner!!! only 10,000 what number am i at lol well, out of 10,000, about 8,000 were last seen over a month ago, 1,999 live too far away, or are lesbians.....and I think I seen the other, hanging out by the bar with a shopping cart a few days ago is that how it is i know i been gone a week here but dang i sure missed out on a lot lol

vthepoet Joined Tue 12/21/10 Posts: 954	Sat 02/26/11 05:43 PM
vibe, if i dislike vibe of the person its not going to happen. ;-P

artlo Joined Sat 01/29/11 Posts: 3085	Sat 02/26/11 05:47 PM
A little bit subjective, but I can respect that. That was a little bit flip. Vibe IS important. You can't put a finger on it, but you know it's there. You probably will never know if it was a good indicator.

vthepoet Joined Tue 12/21/10 Posts: 954	Sat 02/26/11 05:53 PM
nope its always right for me haha. I have a lot of intuition and things go bad if i don't listen to the vibe of the situation, person, everything. Its kept me out of trouble so many times, and whenever I don't listen. I think back and go 'I should have listened to my vibe.' ;-)

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 02/26/11 06:06 PM
I'm looking for my best friend, someone that I can talk to about anything. I don't look for qualities in a person, I look for the quality of the person. [/quote that's really cool - never thought of it that way

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sat 02/26/11 06:30 PM
Deposit $50 bucks into my checking account and I'll tell ya.

artlo Joined Sat 01/29/11 Posts: 3085	Sat 02/26/11 06:36 PM
Boy, this is like pulling teeth. There must be something strategic going on here. Men don't seem to want to tell us what their preferences are. Methinks there may be a clue here as to why people have so much trouble making good connections, and I don't think it's the women.

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Sat 02/26/11 06:50 PM
someone has to...might as well be me. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v0M5oUkm93I