We see these guys who have been members for 2 or 3 days, and have 1 or 2 posts under their belt and they're asking, "I've been on this website for a while. My picture shows that i'm obviously a major hunk. (I'm wearing a backward baseball cap, my tongue is hanging out, I'm reclined in a seductive pose) What's the matter with the women on this website? Why aren't they jumping all over me?" How is it that we are raising this kind of child?

I ain't got no damn children you can't blame my azz........

Well to be honest, your right, people with 2 - 3 posts under there name shouldnt have a word to say if they only been here for about 2 - 3 days, like me for example. Im not mad at you for saying what you said, but most guys, at least some in the younger generation dont get a lot of women who like them, yes im not giving up, but im just saying why not give a chance to at least get to know the guy before completely judging them on looks or personality or habits or interests

OK Kyusoke, Here's the advice I usually give in a situation like this. Think of Mingle as a giant cocktail party. Just by being in the room, you may be lucky enough to attract somebody's attention. Most likely, the women are involved in some other interaction at the time, not looking to see who just walked in the door. See all these forums? Breaking into a conversation is expected on a message board. It is not considered rude. Join some dialogues. Let people know who you are and what you're like. There is almost certainly somebody here who is going to want to get to know you, unless you poop in the punchbowl or walk around with your dick hanging out. Let us know who you are.

oh boy .............lol

well thank you for your advice

I was too harsh. I don't want to hurt peoples' feelings (unless it's in the politics forum). Hope he finds what he's looking for.

Dude everybody knows to just use a baby ruth candy bar and sometimes the little fella just needs a breath of fresh air.........

No hurt feelings here, nothing really bothers me, just looking for advice and what not