I think Goof's tutored a couple of my ex's!! Sometimes what we think is being the perfect mate isn't the other persons idea of perfect. Can't believe I'm saying this but Goof has valid advice. Test the waters & make sure when you find that person you just can't stay away from & find being with them intoxicating then maybe that's the one.

Now listen up dude., no one's perfect in this world., except one or two, but we call them a moron.! Im young but not a dumb, i was in a relationship with a chick for 1 and a half year.. Ya offcourse we endup in a brakeup.. What was the reason.? We never came to new bout each other, i was 17 when i fall in this relationship trap.. We were young, excited to be together but not knowing whats the ugly future., we rushed in this relationship stuff, we were both strangers when we fall in love..! So i learned that one should be friend with a chick to know her deeply before jumping into the stuff, if you think she's fine n ready for relationship ask her n express your feelings.. If not, then you only be friends with her..

I maybe wrong at this one, but thats my opinion

sounds pretty good Ash! I agree with you. It took me a whole lot longer to than it's taken you to learn that friends make the best lovers - good for you

Ash - Great advice for space3bound....and like sweetstgirl, it has taken myself a time to learn that. Now that is what I ask for, friendship first.


Good luck space3, learn well.

@sweetestgirl- okay kay.. You pointed my maturity level many times.. I learn from my mistakes n i seek to get knowledge from others., i learned something from you too, when you point out my mistakes.. i share people's thoughts.., i came to know thier way of thinking.. Thats a damn thing in my mind to gain knowledge.. As that guy says he maybe perfect.. Nope, no ones perfect, we all make mistakes and then what.? We act strong to hide our fragility.. That doesnt make anyone perfect.! But someday we will get past the pain.!

I think one thing that you said really zeroed in on human nature - now that you have said it in the way you have - I realized - yes -we do. Our first reaction to making a mistake is hiding behind a tough exterior (sometimes not always)

and then we learn to forgive ourselves - we were talking about confidence awhile ago on here...and I think this relates. We have to have the confidence to face the mistakes we have made and embrace our fragility. Our fragility is what makes us human.

thank you for the moment of clarity

talk w/ you again soon - gotta get dressed Ima going to dinner with the kids tonight - yay!!

Being as young as you are; I wouldn't worry about meeting some one for a relationship. Don't be in a hurry to find that partner until you have gone out and enjoyed life for a while. Just look at all the divocres from people that got in a relationship while so young. Don't make that mistake. Cheers.

Lemme just save you some suspense and headache bro....

Be more aware....

Chicks can be flaky so you can only take part of the blame...

But....

Dude....your pic is from the inside of a public bathroom with a safety rail....

Self advertising means a lot on internet sites....you got a commodity that you are trying to market....Stop trying to sell yourself while you are sitting on a toilet.

Get the fk up....walk two steps out of your house and snap a pic with your smile gleaming in the sun....

ps...wash your hands too bro.

Why is it that when dude said he was "perfect" you chicks all went "Ahhhhhhhhhh" (Home Alone, Culkin style)? Think he was referring to the fact he would be a perfect companion in that he is ready for a relationship to last. Not that he was a perfect dude, cause only I am perfect.

Anyways, I still stand by what I said earlier. Don't sweat trying to "find" a relationship. Enjoy meeting women. Such beautiful creature they are. And some can cook too.

All men are cursed, You try for a 10 then as you find you are rejected, you lower your standards, Or you can post that you own a Company and make a million $$$$$$ a year and are looking for nice friendly lady.

The selection process in America isn't based on anything more than what you have, and who you are.

A real connection is made in person, by visual in the first 45 seconds.

Ok kay... Lets give that dude a break or he will be too scared to post on here..

May be buddy, you have to wait for the right person & its never to late. But no one is perfect except GOd. So enjoy!

there is no such thing as perfect,and if that is what you are looking for (A) that is too much pressure on the girl or (B)she thinks you are desperate and crazy. Either way, she runs.

BTW your profile pic makes you look a little immature. If i didn't know your age, I would think you were 16. Just being honest.

lmao Ash you could have said that frosted flakes cure cancer and the ladies would agree b/c of your eyes and your abs. They just want ur attention. Poor philosophical guy.