i just had a wonderful daughter 5mo ago. i have a 6 yr old son and now im just looking for a great convosation from a great guy

So if the baby is five months old, where is baby daddy?

we made a mistake and had a short relationship before i found out i was pregnant we broke up. after we found out about the baby we realize that we wouldnt be good to the child if we was together argueing all the time. we can take care of our daughter without being together

Oh please don't take that the wrong way. I am happy to hear he is still a part of her life. That is really all I was asking. If he just ran off or not.

I am really happy for you all, for making the right decision. Too many people try to stay together just for the kids and that is NOT the solution. I did it, years ago.

I hope you find what you are looking for and long term happiness in life!

i had my son (23yrsago) and his dad and i got married less than 2months after our son was born, i wanted to wait he didnt
and all we did was argue we got married for the wrong reasons
i kick him out of the house 4differnt times and of course he didnt change
we didnt even celebrate our first annerversary
we now talk every now and then but there is never going to be anything between us (but our son)
and yea you dont marry someone or stay in a relationship because of the child
if your not happy neither is the child

thats why we didnt even try. there was nothing there but my daughter. no love no hope..