Topic: Its hard for a non flamer
KennyJeeves's photo
Thu 02/03/11 02:16 AM
I've noticed that as a gay guy that doesn't fit the gay stereotype it is much harder to find a guy than if i walked around with my purse hanging out of my mouth. Since most guys assume im straight i don't get very many opportunities to meet men. Anyone else have this same issue? It's a bit frustrating i must say.

eaglescout306's photo
Thu 03/31/11 06:54 AM
OMG YES!!!! when i go out to the gay clubs with some of my friends i dress like a gay man and still never get hit on... like at all. its so annoying. but they could also not be talking to me because im the grenade in my group. lol

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Thu 03/31/11 06:57 AM
I have a few "non flamer" gay friends. My advice (I know from a straight female noway ) Is just be yourself no matter what. If you see a guy you like, go say "Hi" and be friendly. If you put off the friendly vibe you may be surprised by the reaction. Its tough for all of us single people. So I wish you luck in your search my friend.

martindevyn's photo
Wed 04/13/11 08:34 PM
I agree compleatly im manly but i wana have fun to haha, everyone is looking for the omg my bff brett is like omg flamerz its irritates me soo...