can someone tell me why people on here (not all obviously) try to get you to go to messanger? i know its some scam but is this site safe? can the pirate your account easy on messanger. ive been here for a long time and talked to many wonderful women and dated one very special one. we still talk but unfortunitly she went through a bad marraige so at least we can be friends. any answers would be greatly appreciated as i would very much like to know. i even had one lady (?) that wanted to fill out an account for me, lol. i must come accross really dumb! scammers have no sham to take advantage of an idiot lol. thanks

Hi noworries69,

This is one of the best sites at getting rid of scammers. Please report the members and the site will look into it. No one can pirate your account. This is a safe site. The only way someone can hack into your account is if they have your password.

The site can't do anything if they aren't reported. You can report members through their email or their profile.

Hope this helps,

Kim
Site Moderator

Some will want to im because it is faster than email...the problem comes about if they ask for your personal email, etc. It becomes rather easy to field them out and report them to the mods. If you feel uneasy, then go with your gut. If you prefer not to im...you can always turn it off. And as Kim said...report them to the mods....our mods DO take care of us around here. Good luck and hope you enjoy the site.

thank you very much for your advise!

Lol. Omg i had one trying to do that with me yesterday. Seemed a bit too desperate, really. It was clear there was something going on with him.